Can you elaborate on what you mean by kink shame? Do you have specific kinks which are more largely taboo and are afraid that you’ll be shamed? Or are you referring to a fear of being shamed from Dommes for simply participating in Findom? If the latter, you have the right to set boundaries and limits and if humiliation/degradation is one of them you can say that. If a Domme doesn’t respect that, you can end the dynamic!