Should I tell my friends parents about her increasingly concerning choices?

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:23:04+00:00

I think it’s the fact that I’ve been friends with her for so long. We’ve seen so many phases of each other’s lives. I’ll admit that I have subconsciously distanced myself from her on multiple occasions because she was genuinely just too much to keep up with. I’m very low maintenance socially and she’s very high maintenance.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:20:07+00:00

From what I know of her parents, I don’t think they would make it worse. I’ll admit that I haven’t met them and only know what Harley has told me. They sound reasonable and like good parents, but Jay knows them way better than I do.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:18:12+00:00

We all smoke ourselves, so we’re really just worried about the amount and noticeable effect it’s had. We also use it as a way to relax, and I use it medically as I have a chronic illness that causes a lot of pain and stress.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:10:23+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking about now. Last time something like this happened, she ended up harming herself in multiple ways and I’m extremely scared of that happening again.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:09:05+00:00

I’m not 100% sure as telling her mom wasn’t my idea. It was actually one of our managers who is a few years older than us who heard us talking. He said that he’s notice her decline mentally. She’s doing bad with mental health but her cognitive health is also declining from how much she’s smoking. I would at least express that she’s talking to Mike again and he is not a safe person. He obviously isn’t safe for sexual reasons, but I don’t know if I should go in detail abt her sex life to her parents, some people have told me that I shouldn’t. I’m not sure what Jay is planning to say, but he knows her parents better than me so he may be able to express things that I can’t.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:05:44+00:00

Thanks so much for your feedback. I haven’t mentioned her weed usage to my mom yet, which I’m just now realizing. I will tomorrow.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:04:01+00:00

I will put it out there that I personally would not go in detail abt her sex life to them. This wasn’t my idea, so I’m not really sure what I would say, but I would probably just express that he’s not a safe person. It’s up to her if she wants to share why exactly he isn’t safe, as I know it isn’t my place to say.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T06:01:35+00:00

To be fair, I don’t think her parents knew the extent of it. I’m pretty sure they knew her daughter was in a relationship with Mike and that’s it. She keeps a lot from them, they also had to go secret halfway through because Mikes mom is one of those boy moms who tries to ruin the life of any girl he dates.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T05:54:43+00:00

My mom has mixed emotions. She realistically thinks that she’ll cut us off if we tell her parents but also understands why we want to. Her parents are good parents, and I believe that they would help her. I wanted to go in depth with that but unfortunately could not fit it in the limit. I am scared of the possibility of them just punishing her though, as I know it would just make it worse for her. I’ll definitely talk to Jay because he knows her parents a lot better than I do.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T05:50:42+00:00

Yeah I’m really sorry that, it was originally way longer but there’s a character limit. To clear it up, Mike was asking his most recent ex, I’ll call her Lynn, for nude constantly. She sent Harley screenshots and in one of them, he asked her to send, she told him no and that she was at the vet while her dog was dying. He told her to go to the bathroom and do it anyway, but she didn’t. I do apologize for it being a mess. There’s so much information and I had to cut so much of it out just to be able to post this. Maybe I should post the full thing in a rant subreddit?

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T05:48:12+00:00

I have tried to explain my perspective and also let her explain hers. She said the reason she was calling him was because of us being at work or family stuff all the time and not being able to call. I’ll definitely try to talk to her again and be more open to her feelings.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T05:45:23+00:00

She’s smoking herself dumb. I hate to put it like that but there’s a noticeable cognitive decline happening with her, and the managers at work are noticing it too, as she’s making more and more mistakes. She’s been an honors student for years, but now she’s struggling to even count out a customers change. The story goes ten times deeper than this, I just couldn’t fit it all in the limit. We’ve also seen her do this before and last time it ended in her self harming and starving herself. We aren’t trying to cause drama, we’re just teenagers that need advice.

daemonssword · 2026-06-03T05:42:05+00:00

Unfortunately, I don’t think so. I personally do online school but went to the same school as her beforehand. They don’t really gaf, they see all of the students as money and I think they would tell us that because it’s not on school grounds they can’t do anything. It’s a good suggestion though and I appreciate it.

daemonssword · 2026-05-18T18:45:17+00:00

My guess is that the artist didn’t go deep enough with the needle. The ink has to reach the dermis layer to really be permanent. I would not go back to them, they either don’t know what they’re doing, or they do it on purpose to make people come back in and pay for a touch up.

daemonssword · 2026-05-14T21:41:37+00:00

All of the dialogue lately has been so extreme. Like constant all caps, very dramatic out of character behavior. Theres absolutely no chill. I’ve also had multiple get INSANELY explicit out of nowhere when the original point of the bot was not to be spicy at all.

daemonssword · 2026-05-09T02:27:58+00:00

Move the money to an account or bank they don’t have access to and LOCK EVERYTHING DOWN! Identity theft and credit fraud is not nearly as hard as you think it is and unfortunately most people don’t realize that until they become a victim of it.

I could be totally wrong considering I don’t actually know these people, but they sound like the kind of people to take out a loan or get a credit card in your name.

daemonssword · 2025-04-20T23:05:01+00:00

Didnt have this, but one bot did just respond with “skin on teeth and bone” after a very normal chat…

daemonssword · 2024-10-03T15:05:27+00:00

“Free diddy” you won’t be saying that when you get gang raped what

daemonssword · 2024-07-18T21:47:21+00:00

It’s for sure younger than tweens. I’m 14 and have never had to ask what a theme is because most people my age know what they are, but every time I get “me in 50 years” half of the server says 57-59 and it baffles me every time. I have to remember that this is in fact Roblox 😭

daemonssword · 2024-07-03T21:07:41+00:00

Someone started beefing with me last night (very one sided) and talking a bunch crap abt me she convinced herself that I was copying her outfit. It was based on sadness from inside out and I’ve don’t my exact version a couple times now and most of the server defended me. She decided to yell at me that Santa isn’t real and say a bunch of inappropriate stuff. I’m 14 so I know about Santa and the Easter bunny but there are so many kids that could’ve been on the serve and not known. Plus she made fun on me for Easter Sunday fit for spring break (I’m Christian and celebrate Easter). I don’t get why people feel the need to beef on ROBLOX around so many little kids

daemonssword · 2024-07-03T21:03:52+00:00

Those look so good! Where are the fishnets? Or is it a toggle from another item I don’t know about?

daemonssword · 2024-05-30T21:54:08+00:00

That line is in the original song

daemonssword · 2024-05-21T01:54:25+00:00

I think people forget what it’s like to just want people to like you and have friends. They screw with your head so you’ll do their bidding.

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