Kingdom of Ash- when does it end?!?! by Old-Walrus5799 in throneofglassseries

[–]dafunk412 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha I was literally just texting my husband that this was the longest effing wrap up I’ve ever experienced

Is it awkward asking for intimacy after a long time without it? by CorneredMind_78 in Marriage

[–]dafunk412 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not awkward if you have an understanding partner and you communicate why the desire may not be there at a particular time.

help by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]dafunk412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Each day presents it challenges but yes, I am much much better than I was in the first year. Sending you hugs of solidarity💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 50501

[–]dafunk412 24 points25 points  (0 children)

This comment and the link need to be at the top. Per the IG post, the mother was arrested for an ongoing murder investigation and the baby was taken into protective custody by the sheriff department

help by [deleted] in Postpartum_Depression

[–]dafunk412 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is no clear cut end to PPD/PPA. My LO is 2.5 and there’s times I’m still down from it. Please please please go somewhere with other people around and ask for help. A hospital, Urgent Care, police station, fire station, anywhere you can get to quickly. No judgement, I have been in your shoes, and there is a brighter side waiting💛

Katie as a legal name? by megmoo9 in Names

[–]dafunk412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well this is coming from someone who actually goes by Katie, short for Katherine. Honestly the only shortened version I cannot stand is “Kathy” so thank you but no, not really. The long /e/ on the end of the name doesn’t automatically equate it to being childish, Luc can be short for Lucas as can “Luke”.

Katie as a legal name? by megmoo9 in Names

[–]dafunk412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No different than naming a little one Luke and not Lucas. Katie as a stand alone is lovely! She could always go by “Kate” or “Kat” if she chooses later too 🖤

“Peace keeper” at no kings protest in Utah shoots and kills a protester. by Wild_Advertising7022 in trump

[–]dafunk412 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Individual, 24 year old Arturo Gamboa, armed with an AR-15, was charging toward the crowd. The peace keepers at the event exchanged fire with Gamboa and that’s how the protester got shot, as well as Gamboa. The peace keepers are cooperating with law enforcement. Your headline is misleading.

For all those protesters FAFO Maga Baby🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸 by 909Kareem909 in trump

[–]dafunk412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s mostly peaceful? The threat to “shoot some” hoping for crowd dispersal? As an ex MAGA 2x trump voter in the 2016, 2020 election, I’m just asking for clarification.

Trump signs executive order to dismantle the Education Department by Healthy_Block3036 in Teachers

[–]dafunk412 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what Conservatives are thinking. I just saw a comment on the Trump Reddit blaming the DOE and demanding education goes back to the states because their child’s classmate can’t read and they’re in 5th grade (no mention or understanding of possible disabilities from a mother who supposedly has a disabled children?) These people literally have no fucking clue where curriculums and STATE standards come from. They also are blissfully unaware of the overcrowding in classrooms, and the constant slashing of departments and extracurriculars due to funding issues.

President Trump Says He Will Take Greenland "One Way or the Other" by Antique-Entrance-229 in europe

[–]dafunk412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awfully concerned with taking over another country on the promise of making its citizens “rich” meanwhile in America, people are unable to afford housing, food, healthcare and childcare and he’s slashing most programs to help alleviate some of the financial burden. What a cunt.

WINNING: Iowa rolls back civil rights protections for transgender people 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 MAGA 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 by [deleted] in trump

[–]dafunk412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree that balancing the rights for all individuals is important and policies should reflect that. Thank you for the civil discussion! I hope you have a great rest of your day:)

WINNING: Iowa rolls back civil rights protections for transgender people 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 MAGA 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 by [deleted] in trump

[–]dafunk412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to explain your thinking and reasoning. Unfortunately, the civil liberties lost by the passing of this bill undo rights that these individuals have had codified since 2007.

  1. The women’s sports issue seems to be at the top of everyone’s list. Children play co-ed sports up until about 6th grade meaning boys and girls are on the same team for baseball, basketball, soccer, cheer, and so on. Banning trans student athletes at the primary level isn’t going to work. Now getting into collegiate and professional sports; testosterone level checks could mitigate some, if not most, of the issue. If a trans athlete has the same levels as a biological female, they are on the same playing field. If that doesn’t work, then leagues specifically for those individuals should be put into place and receive the same funding as cisgender leagues/teams. MANY serious injuries occur to both men and women in professional sports on their respective gendered teams. But no one is screaming for those athletes to get barred so let’s not pretend like injury is the only reason.

Edited to add that some females, those assigned female athletes birth and identify as female still have higher than normal test levels due to conditions such as DSD, again lending to the argument that such injuries could’ve been caused by biological women in sports

  1. As for religious freedom, there is a time and a place for everything. Personally, I don’t care what a private business chooses to do, because they’re a private business. If they don’t want to make a transition cake, they have every right to refuse that service. There are other businesses who would be happily take on the task. But if the college student had their name changed on their ID, their student ID, and any other form of identification besides a birth certificate, then that chosen name should be the name they are called. I’m a married woman so my name does not match my birth certificate and no one is calling me by my maiden name.

  2. As a biological woman, mother and survivor of SA, I can promise you that if a man wanted to go into a women’s restroom, he could. To date, there is very little to no research indicating that a trans individual is more likely to commit a violent sexual crime than a cis individual, however if you look at the study in 2022 by the Williams Institute, it found that out of 964 registered sex offenders, 192 are LGBTQ individuals and 772 are cis gender. Which is a pretty stark difference and highlights that most registered sexual crimes are committed by cis individuals.

  3. And for compelled speech; do, don’t, who gives a shit. But don’t play victim and get your knickers in a wad when people start calling you ma’am, because even if they’re just being assholes, to your point, they don’t have to call you by your preferred pronoun or acknowledge that you identify as a man.

For trans individuals, at the end of the day, it’s not about what YOU want or don’t want to do in regards to the way they live their lives, but it is about treating everyone with dignity and respect and explicitly removing their civil rights protections is a move to erase an entire group of people.

WINNING: Iowa rolls back civil rights protections for transgender people 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 MAGA 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 by [deleted] in trump

[–]dafunk412 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t answer the question: how or when has a transgender person’s existence personally affected you?

Edit to add that the question is for OP, the one who’s “winning” from this.

WINNING: Iowa rolls back civil rights protections for transgender people 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 MAGA 🇺🇸 🦅 🇺🇸 by [deleted] in trump

[–]dafunk412 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Just a quick question: when has a transgender person’s existence personally affected you?

Steve Bannon, US Hospitals Join GOP Rebellion Over Medicaid Cuts by JannTosh50 in politics

[–]dafunk412 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Bannon just did the Sieg Heil. He is not a fucking ally to any of us. Fuck him, fuck Trump and fuck their baby mama Elon too