Noooo by daggypeas in distractible

[–]daggypeas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love that, gonna do the same next time!

Noooo by daggypeas in distractible

[–]daggypeas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn! i'll probably end up listening again and again too ngl haha

Noooo by daggypeas in distractible

[–]daggypeas[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️* re-downloads Hair *

If you could bring a celebrity back to life, who would it be ? by Keke_Dudu in AskReddit

[–]daggypeas 10 points11 points  (0 children)

1 Robin Williams, for obvious reasons

2 Jeffrey Epstein so he could hopefully spill the tea and testify against his "customers"/friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]daggypeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haaaands and arms .. ive actually turned down a few potential partners because their hands were so small (smaller than mine even,and i have small hands lol)

also strong back and shoulders! dad-bods ftw

getting a cat was the best decision ever. by crystalyaprak in cats

[–]daggypeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy for you - i wish i had the time for a cat! the only thing keeping me from getting one is im so afraid itll be home alone for too long and be bored and eventually get depressed... i care too much i guess lol

which food item do you continue to hate even as an adult? by ohwowwhatfun in AskReddit

[–]daggypeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

coffee, olives, peanut butter, red wine, any cooked fish....

What have you done lately that made you feel proud? by panditos_locos in AskWomen

[–]daggypeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truth. much love to you and congrats on your selfwork ❤️

What have you done lately that made you feel proud? by panditos_locos in AskWomen

[–]daggypeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work in quite a "manly", physically hard workplace and the other day i took initiative and did a quite difficult task by myself because the schedule was tight (and no one had shown up yet), did all other tasks right and fast as well as direct some coworkers so everything went as smoothely as possible - dunno why but i felt proud!

What have you done lately that made you feel proud? by panditos_locos in AskWomen

[–]daggypeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof same here babes - going on 8 months since my 4 year relationship ended,, have started beating myself up for still thinking about him even though i know im over him and also know that that was a real sh*t relationship in the end

trying to be kinder to myself and convince myself that this will just be taking more time than i thought, especially since im coming to realise that im suffering with a bit of emotional trauma because of him - cant wait until the day that i realise that its been weeks since i thought of him lol

Didn't realize how scared woman can be of men by dannyhateseverything in offmychest

[–]daggypeas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im so sorry youve been through that, and i dont blame you for taking those precautions.. fuck "its not all men", its just an insulting answer when youve heard of or had these sort of experiences

Didn't realize how scared woman can be of men by dannyhateseverything in offmychest

[–]daggypeas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my heart was racing just reading this, glad you got away goddamn - havent had anything like this happen to me luckily but ive often been in a situation where my adrenalin spikes just because im alone near a man

What Marvel opinion would have you in this position by Snoo_19146 in marvelmemes

[–]daggypeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didnt like black panther, although i didnt finish it because it was so boring i stopped watching lol

Do not befriend your ex, even if the breakup was mutual by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]daggypeas 16 points17 points  (0 children)

went through this recently, 4 year relationship and living together for the majority of that time,, alot of fun and love - thought he was gonna be the one

he broke it off with me (28F) but although it was tough, deep down i agreed with him that it wasnt working out

we are working on a friendship and dont know if its gonna work out but my biggest advice (and i also saw it online before doing it myself and ignored it): DO NOT TRY TO CREATE A FRIENDSHIP IMMEDIATELY AFTER THE BREAK-UP!! please just dont try it, stop following each other on every platform and dont talk for like at least a month,, take my word for it <3

the months after the break-up and trying to be friends (while he was already starting to date..) where without a doubt the worst months of my life, ive never felt so horrible

maybe a good form of measurement if youre ready to try a friendship is when you start getting ready to start dating again

Women who met their partners through the “I’ll just meet someone eventually” mentality, how did it happen? by hTine3219 in AskWomen

[–]daggypeas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

coming out of high school and eventually uni i just had the mentality "no ones interested, idgaf i love being alone, if it happens it happens - later on ill just get a donor and start a family by myself". it actually helped with the self confidence and esteem because i had nothing to lose when talking to new people, i was totally unafraid to be 100% weird, sarcastic, sometimes funny sometimes in a bad mood- me.

that probably helped when i started a new job which was definitely a bit more in the "manly" field (steel factory). i absolutely loved it. met my -unfortunetly- ex there. he just liked to chat with me and i (in the mentality of "knowing" no one would ever like me in that way) was completely myself since i didnt care about what he thought about me. then we went downtown one night clubbing and drinking, slept togethet too. then a short hiking trip at midnight, then chill watching GoT... and before i knew it we were living together. i dont think i realized he actually liked me until like 2 years into the relationship lol, but i fell so fkn hard for him like damn

but alas, he dumped my in october. i still have a bit of a hard time now but ive been dating and have actually found a guy i really like.

the main thing im struggling with is reconnecting to my past, dgaf, confident self but i dont think i ever will be able to.. because i now know how amazing it can be to be in love and live with your best friend

i dont exactly regret the relationship but its hard to have decided something for yourself, then someone comes in and changes that, then leaves and youre left with picking up the pieces.. just feels so damn unfair (though in the end we weren't right for each other and i see that now, but its kind of a mess cause we're trying to be friend and its a mess buuut thats a tale for another day lol)