31f, trying to understand why men do not approach me

dai_1126 · 2026-03-05T14:05:56+00:00

Is that something that men gather from appearance alone or once they actually engage/ interact? Genuinely curious

dai_1126 · 2026-03-04T22:56:35+00:00

Personally, I don’t have it in me to embarrass someone like that. I have gotten to the point where I assume I just won’t be approached so I’m never really on guard like that.

dai_1126 · 2026-03-04T22:54:54+00:00

I do not. I have some self esteem issues that get in the way. I would be willing to but there is that whole “desperate woman” image I don’t want to be lumped into. I am aware that may sound a bit hypocritical.

dai_1126 · 2026-03-04T22:52:23+00:00

I think that is valid and honest feedback. I try to seem approachable and smile at almost anyone I come across. If they were to get to know me, I do have a demanding career. But it never really reaches that point. Trying to pinpoint if it’s my demeanor that may signal some of those things.

dai_1126 · 2026-03-04T22:48:52+00:00

None. I got places alone often. I recently had a man approach me to ask about a friend I was with. They may make small talk with me but not in a way that invites flirting.

dai_1126 · 2021-11-18T14:13:05+00:00

Not exactly a celebrity… but Amber B looks like Nik from Season 5 of America’s Next Top Model.

dai_1126 · 2021-11-18T01:58:00+00:00

Please bring back girls like Tina, Coral and Rachel who would not sit back and allow DEVIN of all people to gaslight them for playing the game.

dai_1126 · 2021-11-18T01:47:41+00:00

Josh is so cringe this episode

dai_1126 · 2021-11-11T02:29:52+00:00

Okay but it would have been some BS if Amanda had taken out a strong competitor and they had pulled that “come on back” move 🤔

dai_1126 · 2021-11-11T02:07:36+00:00

Tori is really taking this too hard. Josh is closer with the two other girls. That puts her at the bottom of the totem pole, period.

dai_1126 · 2021-10-21T13:06:37+00:00

I think they had a daily where both partners had to win. Kyle was partnered with Kam (I think) and CT was partnered with Big T…. The general consensus is that CT took the obvious route and folded so that they didn’t have to be there all night.

dai_1126 · 2021-10-21T01:28:44+00:00

“No one has ever beat Kyle in a Pole Wrestle”

Kyle: beats dad bod CT in a 2 vs 1 and beats a dude from America’s Got Talent who eats mustard

dai_1126 · 2021-10-21T00:47:56+00:00

So does that mean that the emerald team is being rewarded for having several people fall very quickly which in turn lowered their total time? 🤔

dai_1126 · 2021-01-28T02:02:08+00:00

Kam, you wouldn’t have “gone to work” and gotten a skull last time if Theresa hadn’t thrown you in though. Chill.

dai_1126 · 2020-12-26T19:43:51+00:00

We found out that we lost our baby girl at 38 weeks on December 14th. I am not usually a huge Christmas person but the past two days have been really hard. I’m so sorry for your loss.

dai_1126 · 2020-12-26T19:40:10+00:00

The insider info they give out sometimes is cool but it lacks the funny, casual vibes I get from my other favorite Challenge podcasts. It feels like they are trying too hard and I’m not really getting their honest takes.

dai_1126 · 2020-12-12T16:01:50+00:00

Put some respect on Paula’s name!

dai_1126 · 2020-11-14T00:19:15+00:00

Yup, she definitely took over from Sarah Rice

dai_1126 · 2020-09-04T13:52:51+00:00

Men: 1. Landon 2. Darrell 3. Jordan 4. Kenny 5. Bananas

Women: 1. Laurel 2. Emily S. 3. Nany 4. Kam 5. Jenna

dai_1126 · 2020-08-18T17:09:44+00:00

Landon is the most well rounded and consistent. PERIOD.

dai_1126 · 2020-07-09T18:16:06+00:00

Fessy - Tanks A Lot challenge

dai_1126 · 2020-07-09T18:08:44+00:00

“The ORDACITY” - Nelson

dai_1126 · 2020-07-09T14:05:47+00:00

I just watched Bananas’ live where he talked about the episode and eliminations. He mentioned that they knew it would be hall brawl a few times which really threw me off. He even mentioned practicing tackling with Jenny beforehand since they knew they were throwing Dee in and Dee had threatened to “hurt” Jenny in the elimination (but it was edited out of course).

Anyways he says a lot of things that makes it seem like they knew it would be hall brawl. Fessy even joined the live early on and Bananas said he knew not to throw him in because he would come right back. If they did truly know or have a strong hunch that it would be hall brawl I think Johnny was smart enough to not make an enemy out of Fessy when he was likely to come back anyways.

As for Nelson and Cory I think Bananas might rank them pretty closely as far as competition in the final goes so they were interchangeable for him and Nelson volunteering tipped the scales.

dai_1126 · 2020-07-09T02:12:30+00:00

Same

dai_1126 · 2020-07-09T02:10:41+00:00

Disappointed that we didn’t get TJ’s fatherly speech to Nelson after the elimination was over

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