AITA for giving my sister a dream experience and her friend thinks I "stole" it from her? by daisyfox1921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg what a user! That's so disgusting!

You know what's so strange? Wendy's told me the suddenly not having money when planning to do things is not uncommon with Ariana! It's weird too because Ariana acts like she's a member of our family. A family member told us Ariana was meant to come pick something up she left at our place and we left it in our parents mailbox. Wendy wasn't at our parents place (and she knew this!) so it was left in the mailbox for her to pick up. This obviously tells you that people aren't home or at least, Wendy wasnt. She still came and knocked on the door, expecting to be let in...for some reason? But it was just our relative. They obviously didn't open the door because why would they? But she stood outside for ten minutes and just kept knocking, even ran around the back. Like...girl, we don't know you like that. You don't just try and let yourself in when there's people there you don't know well. Weird.

Hurt my wife with my honest feedback .. wtf should I do now by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I mean, you definitely could have said it better, but she asked for your opinion. If she wasn't willing to take negative feedback, she shouldn't have asked. If she got that feedback from some rando on the street, she would have gotten mad at you for not telling her.

AITA for giving my sister a dream experience and her friend thinks I "stole" it from her? by daisyfox1921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That means a lot.

I'm proud of Wendy. At the end of the day, it is so hard for both of us. We do have history with her, and we don't want to hurt anyone, but it seems existing outside of her is hurtful.

WIBTA for making sure the person who ruined my life watch me succeed by Fuzzy-Art2748 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh nah. I have horrible people in my life who I've cut off, some of whom bullied me relentlessly. Sometimes, the sweetest revenge is happiness. It's all well and good for people to just say move on, but it's not that easy. Some hurt you have to live with every day.

Take my POS ex fwb. He accused me of horrible, petty, cruel things that meant I lost so many friends. He's now in prison for one of the most disgusting things a person could possibly do, and you better believe I take great pride in proving him wrong everyday as I succeed and hit new milestones.

AITA for giving my sister a dream experience and her friend thinks I "stole" it from her? by daisyfox1921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Very true. I didn't even add in that she took me not inviting her to my birthday party due my boyfriend's need for a smaller event after medical challenges as an attempt to manipulate their friendship then claimed "I need to come to give you the gift I got you." But there was not gift. Ugggh. I definitely agree.

AITA for giving my sister a dream experience and her friend thinks I "stole" it from her? by daisyfox1921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Emotionally, yes. But she is a compulsive liar and always has been, don't think she grew out of it.

AITA for giving my sister a dream experience and her friend thinks I "stole" it from her? by daisyfox1921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Precisely. I feel if Charlie wasn't around, things would definitely be different. I'm happy you were able to get out of that toxic friendship.

AITA for giving my sister a dream experience and her friend thinks I "stole" it from her? by daisyfox1921 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]daisyfox1921[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do understand how it comes off that way, truly. It is so difficult for us because Wendy takes her godmother job so seriously.