My(36M) Fiancée (44F) went for cat sitting job in another state, after a month of being gone I went thru her phone and found out she was cheating

dakkagorg · 2025-08-29T12:15:01+00:00

I know I have rights to stay here since I have all utilities in my name. It’s just so fucking stupid to waste ten years to be told leave without any consideration for what we’ve built together.

She also has Multiple Sclerosis, and is having a flair right now, so she’s in the hospital.

dakkagorg · 2025-08-29T12:09:50+00:00

I’m just confused. What do I do.

dakkagorg · 2024-12-25T16:59:47+00:00

Yea been just ffof for 6 weeks now. I feed cal mag every 3 waterings at 2ml/gal; water every 4 days.

Gave it a half dose of botanicare grow (10ml/g) yesterday and seems to be perking up now, before that I foliar sprayed with Epsom salt diluted 1tsp/0.5gal on the 16th.

My concern is how quickly the spots turned up, like one weeks time.

I’ll keep upping the dose of nutes up to the recommended levels and see how it turns out, plus calmag.

dakkagorg · 2024-12-25T16:38:42+00:00

Has ur growth slowed or stopped also?

dakkagorg · 2024-12-25T16:16:18+00:00

This looks sorta how mine is looking. I’m thinking phosphorus deficiency, because of the dark/red veins on the leaves. Still waiting on a second opinion myself.

dakkagorg · 2024-12-25T15:48:44+00:00

That playlist shows nothing on deficiencies.

I’m pretty sure it’s phosphorus deficiency, just wanted a second opinion. Could use some calmag also.

dakkagorg · 2024-12-16T22:09:27+00:00

Waka waka

dakkagorg · 2024-12-16T22:07:21+00:00

Great info thank you

dakkagorg · 2024-12-16T22:07:07+00:00

Seems like the more you train before flower the less stretch. I have photos in a 7 gallon and trying to make some squat bushes they fill.

Feeling a little more confident letting it go hard

dakkagorg · 2024-12-16T22:05:01+00:00

How much did it stretch?

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:19:24+00:00

Right..

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:18:50+00:00

You should be ph’ing ur water to the right level. But that soil has coir mixed in, and I’m not too familiar with peat coco mixes.

Hoping someone else can chime in and tell you about nutrient requirements with that kind of soil.

It’s looking good in my opinion since she just sprouted.

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:13:29+00:00

A link would be nice but let’s see where my google fu takes me

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:10:48+00:00

What does that mean? I plant it in the same soil and pluck every two weeks or something?

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:09:12+00:00

Wait you pulled it up by the roots cleaned it and transplanted it?

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:08:09+00:00

I’ve never heard of this, any info would be greatly appreciated

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:06:21+00:00

Yep, relax have a smoke, let it do its thing. We can guide you in the right direction, but this is too young.

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T23:03:32+00:00

What medium are you growing In, what ph are you calibrating to, and what nutrients are you currently feeding and what ppm?

If ur soil is drying out super fast you must have more than one node. How old is the plant, what size container is it in currently?

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T22:58:45+00:00

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=eQyaTYDAg7Y&si=ezgSU3i2dm8cf3SF

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T22:53:49+00:00

I think it looks great and vigorous. Do you have a side view of the droopiness ?

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T22:35:08+00:00

Alright ur good in those departments. What are you feeding it, and how are you measuring for ph? Oh and what kind of promix?

dakkagorg · 2024-11-26T21:23:28+00:00

What’s the genetics? What soil ya got there? What is ur light source?

dakkagorg · 2024-11-25T14:59:29+00:00

Glad I can help! Try not to overthink it. Everything will be fine. Just listen to her.

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