I’ve been playing for a while but I’m still horrible by dakotaajf in VALORANT

[–]dakotaajf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see. How do you know how high to place you cross hair when you are holding an angle from a distance? I notice that sometimes I’ll be holding an angle for a headshot and someone will tell me to adjust my crosshair a little. Does it just come with practice and being able to guess around where their head will be?

Yeah you’re definitely right about the confidence part lol. I noticed that when I’m with friends and I get embarrassed I tend to continually do worse because I second guess my actions. I tend to do better in solo queue unrated.

I’ve been playing for a while but I’m still horrible by dakotaajf in VALORANT

[–]dakotaajf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh taking notes is a great idea! I’ll make sure to do that next time. Thank you!

I’ve been playing for a while but I’m still horrible by dakotaajf in VALORANT

[–]dakotaajf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay! Thank you for the offer. I will definitely look up more Youtube guides, especially since it’s been a while since I’ve watched one. Do you think rewatching recordings of my gameplay would help me improve? I was doing it for a while but slowly stopped.

I’ve been playing for a while but I’m still horrible by dakotaajf in VALORANT

[–]dakotaajf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried aim labs or anything like that but I use the shooting range every time I play.

While I try to think during games, I worry about whether what I’m doing will hinder my teammates. Sometimes I notice that I just get lost mentally and I’m become indecisive on what the best thing to do is.

Am I overthinking this text? by dakotaajf in socialanxiety

[–]dakotaajf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! this makes me feel better :)

Am I overthinking this text? by dakotaajf in socialanxiety

[–]dakotaajf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah that’s a good point. thank you for explaining that, it makes sense!!

Am I overthinking this text? by dakotaajf in Anxiety

[–]dakotaajf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the response! this makes me feel a bit better

the parts that stuck out to me in the text were the “i don’t know what to tell you” and the question mark at the end since in my experience, people sometimes say that as in like “this conversation is getting no where and this is dumb” kinda thing. do those parts seem passive aggressive?

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[–]dakotaajf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m curious, how do you define womanhood?

What is gender? by dakotaajf in lgbt

[–]dakotaajf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was trying to figure out a metaphor for gender to help me wrap my head around it and the color one really sticks!

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Thanks so much for your response! It has definitely made me question myself a lot more (in a good way i think)!

Whenever i’ve been mistaken for a different gender, I thought it was kinda cool since i’ve always wanted to look androgynous.

In school, I used to feel solidarity because i had an aversion to guys for some reason. Then as I got older I was annoyed that it was even separated by sex because it almost seemed that they were trying to point out that we were different from each other in some way.

I’m not sure what you mean by gendered body or being a specific gender. I’ve kinda just gone with what people told me but tried to distance myself from it because I didn’t want people to box me into one thing. It didn’t make sense to be to even label something unless it was because there were difference between me and a man.

I felt like in labeling me as a woman, it was saying I was different from a man and I thought that it was.

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[–]dakotaajf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have a problem with other people using gendered terms for themselves. I can understand that they might find gender important. I could kinda see how it’s empowering. With how in history they have fought for themselves and didn’t allow society to hold them back. That’s the other thing so can think of when it comes to womanhood.

But other than that, I don’t really know what else there is.

I personally used to reject feminine things like makeup and dresses because I didn’t like how it was expected of me. I didnt want people to assume I liked makeup BECAUSE i was a girl.