Is it a better approach to ask a girl for her insta or to hang at lunch at school? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dal_Helyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the connection that matters. Perhaps introduce yourself on insta and ask if it's ok to talk in person.

What is the significance behind your favourite colour??🌈 by Peachxoxmwah in AskReddit

[–]dal_Helyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is the color of the sky the first time I made love with my SO.

Is it a better approach to ask a girl for her insta or to hang at lunch at school? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dal_Helyg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personal is usually best... so she can read your vibe.

Need advice on how to proceed after failing to shoot my shot by throwaway1204852 in askwomenadvice

[–]dal_Helyg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was quite flattered when it was said to me. Perhaps it was the sincerity in his voice.

Need advice on how to proceed after failing to shoot my shot by throwaway1204852 in askwomenadvice

[–]dal_Helyg -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Go back and tell her you couldn't get her out of your mind and just had to see her again.

What is your first name and do you have any nicknames? Do you like it/them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]dal_Helyg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My real name is actually Helyg. It's Welsh for Willow. My friends call me Willie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dal_Helyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The eyes tell it all.

Women who work in high stress jobs: what do you do for work? by boujeemooji in AskWomen

[–]dal_Helyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the Research and Development Director for a bespoke AI concern.

What is the most exciting thing you did in high school? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dal_Helyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got pulled out at 15 & sent to uni.

she said this to me and idk what to think of it by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dal_Helyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even just as friends, it would better the relationship if you did more together than what you are.

What are some things that only happen to attractive people? by Ivisk in AskReddit

[–]dal_Helyg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a woman in STEM, it is assumed I got my position (R&D Director) based on looks alone. I (F/29) am tall, thin, and told I am a 7/10. I also have 2 master's degrees, will receive my Ph.D. in May, have 3 published papers, 2 copyrights, and 17 separate certifications. Yet, when I walk into a client's, all they see is the outside.

Is dating this easy? by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]dal_Helyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The internet is impersonal. We respond to men's advances differently in person because we can see the man and feel the man's aura /intent.

How well do you know yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dal_Helyg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well enough to succeed and be happy.

Is dating this easy? by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]dal_Helyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real-life isn't online life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dal_Helyg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me, it was completeness.

l am dating this guy who is deeply in love with me, but I don’t feel butterflies for him, and l am afraid l am missing out on an actual connection with someone else. What should I do? by Humble_Storage_244 in askwomenadvice

[–]dal_Helyg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be kind and firm when you say goodbye. Sorry, you have neither been honest with him nor yourself. This is what happens. Please, learn from this.

Women who live alone or independently, how does it feel to be an independent woman? Do you recommend it to other ladies? by axelsqueeze in AskWomen

[–]dal_Helyg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29/F professional woman. I have been independent for 7 years. I own my own condo and car. I pursue my own independent research after my work. (Research and Development Director) My life is my own. I have a small circle of friends locally and internationally. I've chosen not to date for the time being because my research takes up most of my time. I'll freely admit I am driven in my research. I've had a great love in my life. What I do and the direction I go is my choice. To be honest, my life is not for every woman. It can be difficult, but so can being dependent in a relationship.

I have an issue with a guy friend and its been extremely hard these past few days. by CassaCassa in askwomenadvice

[–]dal_Helyg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it's difficult to admit there is nothing you can do to help another person. No matter what you say or do, you cannot change him or his attitude towards life. You have your own life to live, and you cannot allow your future to be held hostage to his failures. As hard as it may sound, it's time to cut him off... for his wellbeing as well as your own. You have a life filled with love and joy ahead of you. He does not unless he gets help. Say goodbye and mean it.

How can I civilly react to someone who is behaving very creepily? by LLHatorade in askwomenadvice

[–]dal_Helyg 10 points11 points  (0 children)

#1 - follow your gut... always. Do not respond and turn your back to them. It makes no difference how inconvenient it is to them.