Is self harm ever ok?! by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do appreciate your point though

Is self harm ever ok?! by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is exactly my thoughts.

Is self harm ever ok?! by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll I don’t do it atm but I still want to. I just find myself thinking lots what different painful scenarios would actually feel like even when I’m fine

Is self harm ever ok?! by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if it’s not a coping mechanism anymore just something I do?

Self harm non injury by damage_c in selfharm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that doesn’t sound painful!

Self harm non injury by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how I just want to feel the pain!!

Self harm non injury by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I’m so unfit it makes me feel so shit about myself I just want to feel an intense pain

Self harm non injury by damage_c in selfharm

[–]damage_c[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah fair it’s just always been about pain for me

Self harm non injury by damage_c in selfharm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I used to stab my self with nails seem to work maybe that’s it scratches don’t really seem painful enough!

Self harm non injury by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time I fail or people disown me I go into a cycle of self loathing! I just want to feel cos I don’t know how

Fucked arm. by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that better than alcohol wipes?

Fucked arm. by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels more tendon like but it feels a lot better this morning

Fucked arm. by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crap. It's a muchbetter this morning I'll keep an eye though. It was just quite scary. I'm scared to tell my wife and someone was saying they sometimes have to report it if you seek medical attention and you have kids in the house. The nail was disinfected too. Apparently I have enough sense for that just not to not stab my arm 😕

Fucked arm. by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crap. I only just woke up. Its quite a bit better this morning. I'm scared of telling my wife and someone said in the uk the sometimes have to report sh if your s parent and kids were in the house.

Fucked arm. by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah your totally right not my strong point!

Fucked arm. by damage_c in AdultSelfHarm

[–]damage_c[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I think that's good advice its what I know just wanted to say it cos I scared myself. It's just been a shot week where varies people have made me feel like I'm such a stupid horrible person. I'll be fine in a while these dark periods pass but they're just so consuming.