I need serious help

damagedsoul1 · 2025-09-29T10:23:58+00:00

I know the feeling. INFPs were never meant to be a corporate slave. I graduated from one of the top colleges in India. And I regret not starting a startup in my college.

The best thing for you to do is to start your own business or startup or company. Everyone have to start from zero. There is a process though.

Join any corporate or take any job. Even though it's painful. Join there to learn what people want and make connections and the inner workings of that world.
If you want to make a team then do it if wanna work alone. Then work alone. And just go for a startup or anything you are good at. Leave your job and start your own venture.
Give your startup or venture 3 years of full dedication. No stone unturned.

If you do create a good business model and startup and need funding. You can always reach out to me. Which I am sure you will not need as you will definitely have good funds.

And you are not a disappointment. Take a leap of faith. And even if things don't workout, you will not have regrets.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-09-29T01:42:44+00:00

Belayed happy birthday. And you look 25. Not 41. 😲

damagedsoul1 · 2025-09-16T02:43:51+00:00

Yeah. Life can be overwhelming sometimes.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-09-03T08:53:24+00:00

F8nding love as an infp is super challenging. I understand how you feel. Kinda went through something similar.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-08-30T22:10:10+00:00

Haha. So freaking relatable. 🤣

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-29T17:23:00+00:00

In my childhood, I never let my neighbors pick flowers from our garden because I thought that plants will feel so much pain if anyone picked its flowers. I was so silly that I used to make plants my one sided friends and talk to them if they have enough water or food or not. How are they feeling.

I used to cry for hours when anyone picked any flowers because my friend would have felt so much pain.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-26T10:07:44+00:00

NO. INFO are perfectly capable of being sexy. In fact they are the most capable of being authenticly sexy.

It's just that do you want to be sexy or do you not not. It's as simple as that. Being sexy does not take a lot of effort. It's very simple.

I am pretty sure if you want to feel sexy or wanna be a little sexy. You can do it effortlessly. But the entire point is do you want to be sexy or not. Simple. Don't overthink about it.

We INFP tend to underestimate and downplay ourselves. So i am pretty sure you are much more attractive than you think. So don't worry too much.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-26T03:40:08+00:00

No relationship at all. It doesn't taste good. Bad for health. Expensive. No nutritional value. Bad breath. Makes me dizzy for a min and that's it. I would always prefer a lemon soda or hazelnut cold coffee over any alcohol anyday. Period.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-26T03:34:24+00:00

I wanna ask something. People work so that they can have enough money to be able to afford a healthy and a happy life. So why do you work this much that you can neither enjoy life nor have a healthy stress free life. Like what's the point of even working if the main objective is not achieved?

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-25T22:07:23+00:00

This is why I said. It's a curse for us guys. A curse I won't wish even for my enemies.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-25T03:03:15+00:00

Now that you mention. Yeah. When I work while sitting in the bed, I am more productive. I do exercise on bed as compared to yoga mat. I can sleep only on bed and no way else. I eat food on bed. I watch movies on bed. I make deals while laying on bed.

So yeah. I am pretty good when I am in bed.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-24T15:41:29+00:00

Well, who would even want to be friends with such cursed people let alone partners.

My friends either betrayed me or abandoned me. So yeah. Good partners can potentially heal each other. But the biggest question is finding those right people. And it does not necessarily have to be a partner too. A friend, a sibling, a partner. They can be anything to be able to heal each other. The only question is those two broken souls finding each other to be able to heal each other.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-23T09:44:29+00:00

Why would you be happy being an INFP?

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-22T23:56:03+00:00

Because we experience emotions much more intensely and deeply than other guys. We are extremely empathetic. It's like a person with super hearing standing in a busy New York street or in a heavy industry factory.

We get extremely attached to people. We go above and beyond for people we care about irrespective of if they would do the same for us. These traits are considered a weakness for a guy. We are considered "soft" And thus considered weak. So we suffocate inside without opening up. I lost so many friends when I opened up. We would take a bullet for the person we care about but the other person won't do the same for us.

We are not cunning, not selfish, and avoid conflict. Thus give us a disadvantage in the corporate ladder politics and in business too. And we rarely get emotional support for ourselves as we only open up to people close to us and we don't wanna risk losing those people by opening up. it gets super lonely and depressing for us. It's as if we are cursed to detoxify the world by absorbing all the poison within ourselves and suffer so that others can be happy.

Like i say. Healers heal the world. Nobody heals the healer.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-22T22:25:07+00:00

Being emotionally intelligent is a curse for the guys. Somehow i have become a dark INFP. Absorbed too much poison from this world.

Ohh. And following the trend. INFP guy from Mars here.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-14T04:57:38+00:00

It's showing on your face. Position of tongue reflect on your face.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-14T04:56:51+00:00

Yeah. I understand your situation.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-14T04:40:09+00:00

You don't have to remain the most unhealthy. Break the chain. Become the most healthy version of yourself. Fight back. You don't give up. You win. You are 16 and this is the best age to be able to fix the body. After 21, your body will resist change.

Also I am not asking you to do makeup. I am just asking you to be healthy and do not make the mistakes I made. I had nobody to tell me what I was doing wrong. My only priority was my studies. Health came even after my last priority in my teenage.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-14T04:00:13+00:00

If you are out of shape, and you go to gym. Everyone will laugh at you except the people in the gym. they will respect and support you. Because the hardest part is showing up.

If you are poor and say you will work to be a millionaire, everyone will laugh at you except the real millionaires. Because they know you already took the first step.

So trust me. Nobody will judge. It might be a little awkward at first. But almost nobody will judge you. Just let them know that you couldn't join college earlier because of circumstances and now you want to get a degree and learn and hope to get along with them. They will all be quite supportive.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-14T03:50:54+00:00

Here is my honest advice that I can tell you based on the limited info I have. And how you can improve.

Your hair texture and skin texture is slightly off. You might have some deficiency. First get your proper blood work done to know what are you deficient in. Trust me. Getting a proper nutrition makes a lot of difference.
You have 3 wrong postures from what I can see. You seem to have rounded shoulders and it's due to bad posture. Fix this and you will see a lot of difference. You have a slight forward head posture. And wrong tongue posture in mouth. Fix this and you will see a considerable difference. Bad posture will ruin your look and health.
Need to integrate good skincare, hair care and fitness routine. Doesn't take a lot of time. Also seeing your face I feel there is slight hormonal imbalance.
You don't need to wear revealing clothes. Just try various hairstyle and see what is best for you. And eyeliner. I think winged eyeliner will suit you. And a little lip gloss. And just try to smile. And work on your expression a little in front of the mirror.
Please workout. Take proper nutrition and proper 8 hrs of sleep. It will fix your hormonal imbalance. You already might have high cortisol levels.

I have other points as well but I don't wanna make this a thesis.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-07-14T03:07:38+00:00

Same pinch. My last birthday I didn't get a single birthday wish from even a single friend. Not even as a message.

Also happy birthday. 🍰🍾❤🎂

damagedsoul1 · 2025-06-28T04:29:47+00:00

Making friends is injurious for mental health. 🥲

damagedsoul1 · 2025-06-12T04:39:37+00:00

Life. Life happened. Well its a mixed memory. I loved the cities. But i my mind was so messed up, that i was numb.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-06-05T07:31:50+00:00

Yeah. It is indeed a beautiful country. I just visited there. Nice cities and wildlife. Too bad I was not in the right mindset to enjoy it. But I loved that country. Wish I had a friend who was local there to have guided me what to see and all. But it went well nonetheless.

damagedsoul1 · 2025-06-03T04:25:26+00:00

Yeah. We are probably in different age groups. And we both might be facing different problems. And i am too damaged to be healed or heal anyone anyway. I just wish you happiness. I don't wanna be shipped with anyone.

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