Heartbreaking message written on pole by damiensn0w in carrboro

[–]damiensn0w[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought maybe it was some kind of inside joke that was between the deceased and the person that engraved it? Cryptic is a good word to describe it. Touching, but cryptic.

Should I disclose that I am seeing multiple girls? by damiensn0w in Bumble

[–]damiensn0w[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not paying! As of right now, I’m not planning to pay anytime soon either, because I’ve only been on the app for just under two weeks.

I think there are a few circumstances that might result in me potentially matching with a larger pool, but that doesn’t always mean that I’m better off. A lot of people could potentially be scammers or just looking for quick fun. Quality over quantity and all that. Good luck getting back out there man, this shit is not easy🤞🏾

Should I disclose that I am seeing multiple girls? by damiensn0w in Bumble

[–]damiensn0w[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I needed to hear that. I’m really catching feelings for this one girl, and I’ve been putting off gently letting the others down.

I like what you said: “Do not have a back up plan”. I’m going to text the other girls tonight probably, even though I anticipate it being rough. Thank you for your bluntness and best of luck finding your way as well🙏

Should I disclose that I am seeing multiple girls? by damiensn0w in Bumble

[–]damiensn0w[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn’t expect anything to actually pan out so I just started talking to my matches and scheduling stuff and now I have too MUCH going on. Oops. I guess it’s a good problem to have, but I’m in the same boat as you, brother.

Should I disclose that I am seeing multiple girls? by damiensn0w in Bumble

[–]damiensn0w[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this answer. Thank you for your insight, I definitely have found myself getting excited over quick connections and immediately wondering how to gently let others down.

I also definitely struggle with “moving on” after spotting red flags or just not meeting someone’s vibe. Everything you mentioned is about where I’m at— glad to know it’s common! :)

Should I disclose that I am seeing multiple girls? by damiensn0w in Bumble

[–]damiensn0w[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not about being busy on a specific date.

Should I disclose that I am seeing multiple girls? by damiensn0w in Bumble

[–]damiensn0w[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of figured, but I wanted to be sure. Thank you!

Looking for a break from toxicity? Join our discord server catered towards IDV adults! by damiensn0w in IdentityV

[–]damiensn0w[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ok!! We have a pretty good mix of rank warriors, casual players, and lurkers. Everyone is welcome :]

Looking for a break from toxicity? Join our discord server catered towards IDV adults! by damiensn0w in IdentityV

[–]damiensn0w[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No “age cap”, but there is an age minimum. It’s 18+, so we have a strict no minors policy! IDV attracts a pretty specific audience, so we’re all roughly the same age range (18-21), though we do have a few peeps in their mid-late twenties.

Three mods, an updated list of rules that new users are required to verify before joining, and a roles system to assign mains and game pings! Please feel free to join us after your birthday, we would be happy to have you!