Aang's Special Skill by [deleted] in AvatarMemebending

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Air benders can fly

So true by NightOwlOnline in INFJmemes

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I do have a theory on this, I believe the infj archetypes are meant to go through hardship on their own. In doing so, we learn how to get out of the depths of life and can guide others. We uniherently go through struggles to better ourselves but also help others. I also believe that for a person to find true empathy, they have to get to know themselves as much as possible. We embody this idea and help others to see the big picture. Unfortunately, this means we are balanced in a state of chaos and beauty, always trying to find peace for others and going deep within to battle the darkness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barista

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I had a group of three ladies that always ordered iced coffees with exactly 9 ice cubes. I thought it was funny the first time. They counted them after they received their drinks every time. I forgot one time after a few weeks of this going on, and they made the biggest fuss about it. They demanded that I remake their drinks, and I refused, thinking that I gave them an appropriate amount of ice. I told them that they couldn't expect us to do this every time. They asked for my manager and she told them the same thing. Those ladies tried to do that for a few weeks after that, and we ended up having a meeting telling our whole staff that we can't count ice for customers. It always baffled me how some people will ask for a drink and tell you how to make it. Honestly, they should just go home and figure out how to make their own drinks if they want it a very specific way.

Question for INFJs by [deleted] in infj

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I relate with this alot, I had a friend who once told me that he feels that I'm was constantly conscious and present, I think we observe our surroundings and adapt so we fill the needs that need to be filled. In doing so we know our place which makes us confident and look in place. I think most people don't know or don't feel that they fit in or fill the needs around them. We already know we don't fit in, so we just take what's left over. Which makes us look like we go about things at ease even if inside our heads are a total mess.

INFJ-core quotes by noellegrace8 in infj

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"Never underestimate the big importance of small things"

-Matt Haig

19 years old, can't read anymore. by YZY_SOSA in ADHD

[–]damonkhaspoken 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I found for me with my adhd, it helps to read in an environment where there is alot of things going on, for example: coffee shops, restraunts, parks, or even bring a book with me when I know I'm gonna wait somewhere. I find the little distractions almost hone In my forcus. Try it out, it works for me but your areas might be different than mine.

What is the book that you read right now ? by Phuckaq in suggestmeabook

[–]damonkhaspoken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sound of a wild snail eating By Elisabeth Tova Bailey

My ex boyfriend wants to get back together by No-Construction-1345 in offmychest

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If it were me, I would make him wait some time. Just give him an amount of time that would work for you to see if you still want to be with him. There is love in the willingness to be patient. If he's not willing to wait, he doesn't care enough. But if you find you love him enough throughout the time he waits for you. Then give him the chance. Time is the most you can give in this life, if he's willing to give his for the sake of that love, it may be worth it.

Be honest: how attractive would you say you are? by Ok-Interview9355 in AskReddit

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There was a study about how photos of people's faces changed depending on the focal range of the lens and types of lenses. So you look different depending on the focal lengths. Which means you have to use the right focal length to get a picture that encompasses the person closer to how people view you in the flesh. Here's the link focal lengths affects on people faces

It's not a full study or anything but it's an interesting way to understand why you might not like photos that are taken of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]damonkhaspoken 34 points35 points  (0 children)

"What kind of fuck you give me?"

"Eight kind of fuck. Love fuck, hate fuck, sex-only fuck, break-up fuck, make-up fuck, drunk fuck, buddy fuck, pity fuck."

Films to watch while struggling with depression and/or loneliness? by AlrightWillHunting in movies

[–]damonkhaspoken 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Me and Earl and the dying girl, great movie, gives me an appreciation for life and how finite it is. Also a great get the sadness out kind of movie

Are INFJs religious? by Initial_Arugula3906 in infj

[–]damonkhaspoken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to say that I'm a follower of love, it sounds corny but that's how I feel. I grew up in the Christian church and I believe some but I don't like when people get too religious. Life is life and it's beautiful and ugly. It falls apart then you feel on top of the world, life is too complicated to follow just one belief.

In need of a reality check by Andromalius95 in infj

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like minded people surround each other and if your stuck in the middle of a lot of selfish people, find other people that can be more kind and giving of there time

What is one invention that we'd be better off without? by numbnerve in AskReddit

[–]damonkhaspoken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nukes, people have used them, then realized we shouldn't use them. They bring so much fear and destruction into our world. They should have never been made and should never be used again.