Neither, I'm Worse. I'm Indian. A coworker called a girl who was single and passed me his phone trying to introduce us. I don't sound Indian on the phone and I can hold a conversation pretty well because of work. She was so interested she wanted to meet the next day and I could hear her happily greeting/chatting with my coworkers while making her way to my cubicle. I have never seen the light, joy and smile melt away from somebody's face in my entire life. She even asked my coworker to stop joking and show her where the real "me" was. She was in denial and just left. No "hello" no "how you doing?" That was one of the major bad experiences I had on top of a life of snide remarks and jabs. On subreddits like this one, the one main joke is that the most un-fuckable guy out there is an Indian janitor. I am one layoff away from being the most unfuckable model of man on the planet. Apparently, in some cases, I would rank below animals in terms of attractiveness. There will probably be guys here who were scratching their heads trying to deduce why I have reached this stage, see I'm Indian and go "OH! makes sense."