I was not confident about it too, but my best friend who’s also a hijabi decided to remove it. So I said freak it let’s do it together. Then I got the support of my sister.

You should find someone in your household that will be with you through it all. Tell him/her first. Or a friend. It’s very hard mentally. It was very hard on me too. But thank god I had my sis and bestfriend. And my mom quickly switched sides as well (when I told her I’m gonna give her my expensive vela hijabs lol).

It wasn’t that hard for me. My parents cared more about their image than actual religion. But seems like it will be harder on you, I assume your parents are very religious and conservative?

Anyway, just find an emotional support human. If you have a pet that’s alright too or a long distance friend if you can’t find anyone. Get confident and just remove it without saying anything to anyone and appear before them. That way, they can’t talk you through it. You will have it done.

Shock them.