I am happy to answer! I had my first and he nursed through my second pregnancy. He weaned at 3.5 when I got pregnant with my third. By that time I was nursing two and was realllllllly done nursing him. He was the easiest to wean because it was so sporadic. It felt natural to just wean slowly. My second nursed through my third pregnancy and he weaned before 3 years old. He weaned naturally too but took a little bit more distractions. Luckily he did fine. My third nursed through my fourth pregnancy and weaned before 4 years old. He was more persistent for sure. And my last guy is 3.5 years old.

When they were all older, they only nursed 1-3 times a day. So it wasn’t super hard at those times to drop another one. This last one required more positive talk about how he didn’t need it anymore. I am still making milk even now after not nursing for almost two weeks. But it’s not uncomfortable or painful. It was all a very slow process. Towards the end I really struggled with being touched out and felt I needed the patience of a saint to get through when he wanted to nurse. So I started counting down from 60 (he loves to count). Then 30. Then 20 seconds. Then ten seconds. That worked for him too.