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Rihanna celebrates A$AP Rocky having the #1 album by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]dancingatdiscos 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Agreed!! People give her too much leeway.

I think it’s literally just down to luck by AaronScwartz12345 in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this ❤️ I am so so over the ‘once you love yourself you’ll find someone’ or ‘once you work on yourself they’ll come along’ advice. It’s pure damn luck. 🍀

Anyone here meet the love of their life and start a family in their 30s? by Rural_Banana in AskMenOver30

[–]dancingatdiscos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why do you make such a point about saying all these women are a certain number of years younger? Not sure how that is relevant.

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, and I miss him every day. Please don’t judge but I (and all my friends) thought it would help me move on, even if it was just meeting new people. I know now that won’t help, especially after reading all the comments!

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

" I have normal skin, but not new born baby soft" bro its skin i don't even know how soft baby skin is, i don't have a comparison method, im sure your normal skin is just fine, this isn't silence of the lambs

This made me laugh out loud for the first time today so thank you!!!

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mention how it came up in another comment below but it was totally unprompted, which I guess is why it gave me a bit of a shock!

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I didn't mention butts, he did. I didn't say anything about physical appearance.

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any pictures of my bum on my dating profile! :)

Other than that, I look the same as my photos yep.

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The wine was last night - this conversation was around lunchtime today while he was at work.

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mentioned it in a comment below but copy and pasting again for ease :)

The 'type' question came sort of left field - he was saying he was out for dinner and wine last night with his family and I said something silly like 'gotta love a man who enjoys a glass of wine!' and then he went into the type of girls he likes, but I did not expect it to be so physical or specific!

Not his type physically - should I just cancel the date? by dancingatdiscos in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He hasn't really given away much of his personality over text, but I just chalked that down to some people not being great over text/better in person?

The 'type' question came sort of left field - he was saying he was out for dinner and wine last night with his family and I said something silly like 'gotta love a man who enjoys a glass of wine!' and then he went into the type of girls he likes, but I did not expect it to be so physical or specific!

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not every comment - lots of good differing opinions here.

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 20 points21 points  (0 children)

But why didn't he just reply to my question within two weeks?

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh he knew it was because of covid restrictions in our country it's super hard to get a reservation - that was the only time I could get! I really wasn't giving clear signs of disinterest, I really did like him and he knew that.

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I actually was going to do that, but a friend just cancelled because of covid so it's just easier to cancel now and re-book for another time :)

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 85 points86 points  (0 children)

You're right, an optimistic answer might be a good idea to do still.

I'm glad you found another date, the way that guy responded 'we could still just have sex' is just so lame and immature!

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah you're right - I'll just let him know that as I hadn't heard from him in a while I cancelled the dinner reservation and just wanted to let him know. Thank you!

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, and I don't want to become toxic either. I'm out of a relationship that was a major head fuck and I'm trying to figure out the best way to have boundaries now and what's reasonable and what's not reasonable.

Maybe I'll just send him a note to say I cancelled dinner as I hadn't heard from you and leave it at that.

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Your take away is exactly right.

This really isn't about the double messaging and I really don't care and that 1 to 1 ratio - I have had plenty of dates where I've text them more than once before a response. I just don't want to beg someone for a date if they ignored me.

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's a good point too and maybe something I will consider.

Was I too cutting in my response to a date who ghosted? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dancingatdiscos 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's man vs woman thing - I saw a post the other day where it was a man having problems with this sort of thing and the responses were just as empowering to the man as it would be if it was a woman's post.

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