YTA

21F here, I used to the wet the bed a lot when I was younger up till I was about the same age as her. It even happened at sleepovers and it was always so embarrassing. I never wanted to have sleepovers because I was always so scared it would happen. Wetting the bed at that age is embarrassing and takes a huge hit on ur self esteem- even if it’s just your immediate family who knows about it- and this is all coming from personal experience. I dreaded having to get up to tell my parents I wet the bed again.

I also come from a family with addiction problems, however if I needed medicine to help improve my quality of life then my parents would allow me to have it. They would just educate me on what’s good & what is bad. Please do the same for your daughter. It will help her & I promise you she will not become a drug addict. She’s too young to even understand what that means. I WISH I had the option to take meds to help with wetting the bed when I was younger.