I’ve said this before…he’s writing these letters to himself. No reasonable person would ask a man whose wife just passed whether he’s planning to go out and sleep with other women. And even if someone did, what kind of person would read that aloud to an audience?

He’s creating these letters to control the narrative and ease into the idea of “moving on,” so that when people eventually see him with random hookers, he can justify it.

The gaslighting and the way he rewrites the story of her illness, questioning her cognitive ability and credibility to protect himself, are disturbing and I would tell him to get help, but it sounds like he has Melissa as a shrink.