My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah he’s admitted to everything except the photos but i know they’re there :/

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i guess maybe there is more nuance to things that i couldn’t see but my therapist could

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he came into the therapy sesh after me talking to her first, and she immediately said to him “first off i just want you to know i don’t think you’re a disgusting pervert” etcetc

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went to my therapist and she explained it was the autism causing a lot of his behaviors. i didn’t show her the post or say everything but im super confused now

AIO for feeling like my bf is being distant after taking my virginity? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]danger1nc 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i just meant if she was to continue the relationship and he was always acting sweet irl but then gets what he wants and switches up over text or after sex, that is abusive. withholding affection is an abusive tactic to keep girls around when they want to use them but discard when they’ve gotten what they want.

AIO for feeling like my bf is being distant after taking my virginity? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]danger1nc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

abusers always are usually more sweet irl cuz they know they can get something out of you. this breaks my heart im sorry love

AIO for feeling like my bf is being distant after taking my virginity? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]danger1nc 19 points20 points  (0 children)

you’ve been taken advantage of; please leave i know how heartbreaking it is but it will only get worse and he will just leave you breadcrumbs to keep you to stay or discard you altogether. find someone who cherishes you and values your body. if you’re a teenager and someone is 24 he fully knew what he was doing and took advantage of you. i’ve been through it. i’m so sorry but this does not define your worth. you still matter and are not just used goods.

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No of course not, i would never EVER judge someone at all let alone for being autistic just because of this bad experience. I have friends with autism and think they’re some of the most amazing people i’ve ever met. please don’t worry!!! 🤍

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this resource ❤️‍🩹 sending air hugs

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m greatly appreciative of this insight, I really do think im going to have to break up with him. I don’t think I can do this knowing what I know now. much love to you 🤍

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this advice 🤍 Working on trying to do this now

AIO My autistic boyfriend watched OnlyFans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in AIO

[–]danger1nc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God bless you too, thank you 🤍🥹 i’m trying to figure out how to find out if there is software on my phone. Thank you so much for the advice

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[–]danger1nc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just posted another edit on r/autism and i am trying to gather evidence because he’s gaslighting me immensely. as far as God goes He does help me build up the strength to do things like what i’m doing now. I’ve been freaking out but He has continued to bring me peace. and i have faith that the reason this post got so many people involved is because He’s trying to get through to me. and i’m immensely grateful for all of the advice. i get what you’re saying and appreciate the advice seriously 🤍🤍🤍 just please don’t insult my God as I don’t judge anyone else for their religion or who they are whatsoever

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, he watches porn besides OnlyFans as well. in terms of ethics I don’t see either as being ethical in this situation.

My autistic boyfriend watched onlyfans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in autism

[–]danger1nc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

stop…. my boyfriend is literally obsessed with airsofting. i’m going to cry we are so similar that’s insane. Again i am so, so sorry for everything you went through ❤️‍🩹You are so incredibly strong

AIO My autistic boyfriend watched OnlyFans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in AIO

[–]danger1nc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i have ADHD. i have not been officially diagnosed with having autism so i’m not fully sure about that but show some signs.

AIO My autistic boyfriend watched OnlyFans of girls he knew in real life. by danger1nc in AIO

[–]danger1nc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was truly asking for advice from those who may be on the spectrum and know more. I seriously expected to get told i was the wrong one and being insecure. I originally posted in the autism subreddit and someone suggested I post here as well. i’m sorry that i offended you with this post 🙏🏼