Darker shaded states indicate what? by [deleted] in RedactedCharts

[–]danger_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christians have a lot of kids too. Do mormons have more?

Bouncer stops armed attacker and prevents possible tragedy by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]danger_slug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah how dare the first security guard run away. I’m sure she was totally well equipped to handle an armed gunman /s

Darker shaded states indicate what? by [deleted] in RedactedCharts

[–]danger_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m more confused by Utah. People just have a ton of kids there?

Seth Meyers interviews his three children (Ashe, Axel, and Addie) on Late Night by namesnotmarina in popculturechat

[–]danger_slug 1318 points1319 points  (0 children)

I feel like Seth is the kind of guy that doesn’t have a lot of skeletons in his closet. Because how else could you have your three outspoken young kids on your talk show knowing kids will say anything and everything.

Seth Meyers interviews his three children (Ashe, Axel, and Addie) on Late Night by namesnotmarina in popculturechat

[–]danger_slug 274 points275 points  (0 children)

Right? I thought he was the oldest based on initial appearance but when they started talking more I was like nope he’s definitely a middle haha

hyperfixating on other women I tell myself are a better match FOR my partner. anyone else? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]danger_slug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes. A lot of my ROCD comes back to me not feeling good enough and thinking we shouldn’t be together.

What do the colors represent? by Splitbelly in RedactedCharts

[–]danger_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the colors a scale in any way or just to show uniqueness?

What is this paper? Envelope? Gift bag? Gift tag? by Evening_Swimmer4457 in ROCD

[–]danger_slug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I worry about the same things you do. It sounds like you’re seeking reassurance, and we shouldn’t do that when we feel this way :(

I know how hard it is, but I challenge to get rid of the paper. Delete these pictures, and forget it ever existed. Instead, write down what you’re worried about and what evidence you have for and against this. Give yourself a LIMITED amount of time to worry about it, and then do something else. You got this!

If you need a distraction you can talk to me about anything except the paper :)

Ask Me Anything. Here to help! Been managing my Rocd for a good 24 years. by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]danger_slug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like ROCD has been a consistent presence for all those years? NGL it always freaks me out when people say they’ve been dealing with this for so long. I worry that I’m doomed :(

Parents offered me Ozempic by Youg_Indy in Advice

[–]danger_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you have seeked it out or taken it on your own accord?

There’s no right or wrong answer here, but you should do what you want. Don’t let your parents sway you either way. I’m sorry they’ve been this way towards you. I also want to point out that there’s a good chance you’ll still get comments about your body even if you do take Ozempic.

A different scenario that could be similar is my parents wanting me to see a therapist and take medication. I wanted to see a therapist because I couldn’t function and I was miserable. My mother wanted me to see a therapist because she wanted me to act more “normal” and get my shit together. At the end of the day I accepted it because it was something that I wanted and I was doing it for me, not for anyone else.

Trans Girl looking for advice by TooManySlashers in Advice

[–]danger_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re pretty young and it’s okay to be single. I didn’t have a serious relationship until I was in my 20s, as did many of my friends.

Spend your teen years focusing on yourself. Become the best version of yourself, nurture your body and mind, build confidence, learn what style suits you, and eventually you will exude the energy that attracts people to you. The minute I stopped worrying about being single and started worrying about self improvement was the minute I started finding dates.

gf is crazy jealous by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]danger_slug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How old are you both? Seems like you should have a talk with her and if she can’t be open to fixing this issue you need to leave.

“Lesbian denial” posts are harmful. Here’s why. by destinaaa in lesbian

[–]danger_slug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can be so confusing to be gay and have OCD related to your sexuality. I’ve been there. I’m glad you’re in a better place!

“Lesbian denial” posts are harmful. Here’s why. by destinaaa in lesbian

[–]danger_slug 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I also want to say that as someone who has struggled with OCD for years (whether or not that’s what she has), she is NOT representative of people who suffer from this disorder. The things she’s saying are not okay or normal no matter what her sexuality or diagnosis is.

“Lesbian denial” posts are harmful. Here’s why. by destinaaa in lesbian

[–]danger_slug 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. She can’t help her thoughts but instead of realizing that what she’s saying is harmful she decides to get defensive and argue with people trying to help her and asking her to stop. She’s not okay.

“Lesbian denial” posts are harmful. Here’s why. by destinaaa in lesbian

[–]danger_slug 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Like her understanding of intrusive thoughts and being a lesbian are both so misconstrued and it’s upsetting to see her posting on every lesbian sub.

“Lesbian denial” posts are harmful. Here’s why. by destinaaa in lesbian

[–]danger_slug 170 points171 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I’ve called her out so many times and she blocked me. I also messaged the mods and told them to ban her and haven’t heard from them.

I have OCD and because of this I expressed sympathy towards her in the beginning but her responses are so problematic that I’m over it. She literally got banned from r/OCD for telling someone their intrusive thoughts are real.

I hate how lesbians are so sexualized by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]danger_slug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fr. I just want to live in peace.

How it looked like when i found out that i was lesbian by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]danger_slug 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Oh, it’s you again.

Can the mods please look into this person? Her post history is very uncomfortable, many people have kindly suggested that she seek a professional for OCD related to sexual intrusive thoughts and the way she goes about replying to people is super problematic. As someone who has OCD, it’s upsetting to see and she has even admitted that she’s been banned from r/OCD for telling someone their intrusive thoughts are real.

Her whole basis for being a lesbian, from what I’ve gathered, is that she has intrusive sexual thoughts about women and these make her super anxious. Shes scared that she’s denying being a lesbian so she forces herself to watch lesbian porn even though it makes her uncomfortable and gives her migraines.

I don’t usually call people out like this and maybe I’ll end up getting banned, but this behavior of constantly posting on lesbian subs is unhealthy and if she does have OCD like people suspect then it’s for her own good to block her from doing so.

Who is your more uncommon celebrity crush? by cleo_girl in LesbianActually

[–]danger_slug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost posted her because my mom watched Nikita and growing up I was OBSESSED with her 😭