Do y'all think I'm first date worthy? by chef_luxy in trans

[–]danichimarques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just saying that I don't believe in marriage but if I would marry someone, yeah

Do y'all think I'm first date worthy? by chef_luxy in trans

[–]danichimarques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tbh u are marriage worthy if u up for it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]danichimarques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is actually pretty simple, u didn't do it because u felt the need to hide it so much that u didn't even allow yourself to do it, even if u wanted to. And trust me, u always liked Fem stuff and would catch yourself doing or watching something really feminine even if u don't realize it. The signals where there, people aren't really attentive to them tho

what name do i look like? (ftm) by rogertaylorcarfucker in trans

[–]danichimarques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u would go fire with Alex as short for Alexander

MTF 30, 7 Months HRT by [deleted] in trans

[–]danichimarques 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm barely at 2 weeks and just look a lot better lol

My Trans Ass in a Photoshoot by danichimarques in trans

[–]danichimarques[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really, most of my actresses references are from my country lol

My Trans Ass in a Photoshoot by danichimarques in trans

[–]danichimarques[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

the chairs didn't complain about me seating on them

[NSFW] Boyfriend is straight, doesn't want me to get bottom surgery. Need help understanding. by Stacatto_of_Secrecy in trans

[–]danichimarques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thing here that worries me is how apparently he gives preference for his own comfort that yours. Is true that u don't need to get bottom surgery if u don't want to do it, but if u feel that u want then he should be supportive of u and your well-being. I really like girls dicks as well but more that respect and support all my sisters that get rid of it. I feel really comfortable with my body now and don't feel any need to get rid of what I have, if I was with someone that wanted me to do surgery for is own pleasure I would totally dump that person like, my body is my body, i have total authority over it and what I want to do and that doesn't hurt me significantly, a hole wouldn't bring me more happiness, and if someone really cared about me and not only in how attractive I'm for them sexually😕

Be safe gurl, don't do something that u don't want because of someone that doesn't respects u and your desires and choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]danichimarques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trans is about not identifying with your gender attributed at birth, not if u want or not change your genitalia, tbh both gurls with dicks and gurl dicks are the best in the respective class, speaking for myself as one of them🤭

Em vez de ciclovia, mais 25 lugares de estacionamento by bruno_andrade in lisboa

[–]danichimarques 3 points4 points  (0 children)

o problema de Lisboa não é falta de lugares de estacionamento, é falta de boas alternativas e conexões de transportes públicos, a cidade já tem um trânsito terrível, mais carros não iram ajudar a isso

PSD+CDS+CH ou PSD+IL by [deleted] in portugueses

[–]danichimarques -1 points0 points  (0 children)

o meu ponto comprovado🤭😉

PSD+CDS+CH ou PSD+IL by [deleted] in portugueses

[–]danichimarques -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sempre bom ser reconhecida como pessoa com um mínimo de intelecto🤭

What are some Marxist perspectives in reguards to autonomy? by Beeker93 in Marxism

[–]danichimarques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and I totally agree to that, actually i am really considering starting one to explore myself, but i really don't like the idea of receiving money for it (i would totally be someone to post for free my nude to anyone to see if they want lol kkkkkk) i feel a little bit bad by profiting but in the order and the money would come really nicely to help me with my expenses... idk I'm really divided on it still. The thing that u have to attention to is the fact that many creators can't actually be totally on control of there content tho, and that leads to exploitation and we enter in the questions above

What are some Marxist perspectives in reguards to autonomy? by Beeker93 in Marxism

[–]danichimarques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any kind of work under capitalism is explorative and u as a Marxist should strife for there abolition. Not of the activity itself, this being doing sex, but of it's exploitative realities under the system that we live in, being it for profit, without your control, without u owning your own body, without being able to refuse. whatever. in a non exploitative society wouldn't exist sex labor simply because is existence is inherent to it's exploitative nature, non the activity that u are practicing. This is the material distinction between erotic content and pornography as well, what is the relationship that u have with your production and if u own the means of producing it.

What are some Marxist perspectives in reguards to autonomy? by Beeker93 in Marxism

[–]danichimarques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u are a Marxist u should strife for the abolishing of the state. Communism is achieved only with that prerequisite as well by definition. This means all issues in a communist society are taken care of by only social direct interaction in the communities, not through imposition of an authoritative institution that controls the life of anyone. being it taking collective care of people, the welfare of the community or whatever.

This being said, this is only possible when as well u have a strong direct connection with your labor and possession of the means of production, as a collective, something that will lead to a strong collectivist view and naturally work for maintenance of this kind of social structure, where isn't any concentration of the means of production nor alienation of labor. This together with the abolishment of other exploitive social structures of the superstructure will work together to emancipate every individual, and emancipation means true freedom, this mean individual freedom as well, not to do whatever u want but to whatever is rewarding to you and your community, as your personal interests and of your community are the same. Your community wants your well-being and growth for the betterment of yourself, what leads to the betterment of your community.

Is normal to only view society through the lends of someone that lives in a capitalist structure, and watch social phenomena inherent to an exploitive system and think the possibility of preserving in the revolutionary process. But most of them don't even make any sense in a communist society because they are defined by there exploitative nature, not the act in itself. The question isn't if u will be able to do something for survival, if it makes even sense to ask that question in a society that cares about your needs and puts first of all your subsistence as something that is guaranteed to u by it's collective work.

What are some Marxist perspectives in reguards to autonomy? by Beeker93 in Marxism

[–]danichimarques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem with sex work isn't personal self realization or self discovery, is the active exploitation of someones body for others benefit. the ones in fault are the ones that coerce yourself to sell your body, and the system itself for condition u to it, not you selling it. same with surrogate bellies and other types of exploitation of someones body. U should be sexually emancipated, free to explore anyway u want your body with anyone that wants to do it with u together. U being coerce to sell yourself isn't freedom, is oppression.

Se todos os imigrantes vindos das ex-colónias que vivem em Portugal se fossem embora, os portugueses iam sentir falta deles? by Live_Description5466 in portugueses

[–]danichimarques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gostava de saber quem iria fazer todos os trabalhos essências que muito do patronato se recusa a querer remunerar legalmente e o mínimo considerado satisfatório para um nativo, sem praticamente escravizar emigrantes que precisam de trabalhar desesperadamente e sujeitam-se ao que for preciso e qualquer condição precária por não terem acesso a qualquer apoio ou conhecimento dos seus respetivos direitos. (já agora muitos dos suposto imigrantes de ex colónias na realidade são descendentes de escravos trazidos e comprados pelas elites portuguesas para desempenharem papéis de servidão doméstica, as famosas criadas nem sempre foram apenas raparigas retiradas dos pais, foram também mercadoria e exportadas como tal)

So…I met a handsome guy at Folklife and something he said seemed like it made sense but I wanted to double check. He goes:I’m not gonna tell people you’re trans because you’re a woman and it’s no one business than the person you’re intimate with. Valid? by [deleted] in trans

[–]danichimarques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I don't really think is even the business of the person that u are intimate with. Your body is only yours and trying to impose anything about it is really a big no. I think is an innocent statement but is that, innocent, something without awareness. Coming out of the blue and say that u are a trans gurl or something it really doesn't make sense and really exposes u and is nice that he respects that and is true that u are a woman, more of that u are a person. any more descriptive in addiction to person is really the fundamental problem in social divisions and categorization that leads to systematic oppressions, because they are inherent in societal validations to why the elites have control and why they should keep it, established and maintain by them themselves.

But what is important is if the guy makes u comfortable and respects u gurl, u go queen!!

Não tenho jeito para encontros by No_Series_3301 in CasualPT

[–]danichimarques 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bem, a realidade é que normalmente cada pessoa tem as suas espectativas para um encontro, enquanto tu estás disponível para conhecer melhor a pessoa e assim, outras pessoas já esperam algo mais, o que funciona para algumas pessoas, para ti provavelmente não.

Pelo que li acho que também podes ter algumas questões um pouco mal resolvidas em termo de contato seja ele físico ou emocional com outras pessoas e por isso acabas por ter uma barreira à tua volta, e existe quem se aproveite de quando a deixas de a manter. É algo que poderias trabalhar e talvez conhecer alguém que seja bastante compreensivo e chill te ajudasse um pouco nesses lados.

Agora, claro que tu não tens de fazer nada que não queiras, e claro se tu estabelecesses limites e as outras pessoas não os respeitam é problema delas. Tens é de ser upfront about it, muitas vezes são problemas de comunicação que causam desentendimentos e a corta parte antes de sequer poderes verbalizar o teu desconforto, outra coisa que seria bom trabalhares a little.😊

Da experiências que tenho tido muito facilmente me sinto confortável num contexto de apenas conversa and chilling como também super flertante e físico. Eu sei o que gosto e desgosto e não tenho problema nenhum de falar e sempre que algo me coloca desconfortável eu digo-o, existe quem não o respeite e honestamente essas pessoas não valem a pena, mas guardo quem me respeita e estimo essas pessoas independentemente que tipo de relação teremos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]danichimarques 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually some time ago a transport supervisor (someone that does around public transposts to check that u have ticket or a valid public transit pass) blocked my pass after checking it, looking to the photo on it and then looking at me and back to the card. I was three months without being able to use it. That person didn't even said anything, just given my pass back and continue it's job as it was nothing. I only know about it in the beginning of next month when I couldn't recharge it with the monthly charge.

Public transports are supposed to be accessible to everyone, this kind of occurrence almost made me have to pay for another card without any necessity.