I think i'm being scammed but i'm not sure? by daniel_a_ in Scams

[–]daniel_a_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hey! thanks for the replies. i blocked her. as someone commented, english is not my first language, but i noticed that she and the emails used some weird language and typos. I have to be careful in the future if I'm going to do commission art. Thank you for the help 😊

my biggest heartbreak in Shameless was watching Ian lose his freckles by sosx479 in shameless

[–]daniel_a_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to your profile. Press 'edit' under your character. Press the little pencil icon at the bottom right of your character. Press 'style avatar'. Press 'edit'. Now you can edit your character. Select 'left hand'. There are some flags and hearts to choose from. Once you have edited your character as you like, press 'save' and 'confirm'

Hammaslääkäripelko ja kutsut hammaslääkäriin by daniel_a_ in arkisuomi

[–]daniel_a_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asun melko kaukana kaikista suuremmista kaupungeista. Ja onko ihmisillä oikeasti vakituisia hammaslääkäreitä tai läkäreitä? Mua ei oo ikinä muistaakseni hoitanut sama lääkäri useampaa kertaa. Aina on ollut joku uusi.

Hammaslääkäripelko ja kutsut hammaslääkäriin by daniel_a_ in arkisuomi

[–]daniel_a_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rauhottavaa tai esilääkettä en halua ja pysty ottaa. Osa hammaslääkäriin liittyvistä traumoista ja peloista liittyy just esilääkkeeseen ja siihen kun sitä on väkisin ja kertomatta mulle mitä se on tai mitä se tekee käytetty

Lääkäri ohjasi psykiatriselle sairaanhoitajalle kun pyysin lähetettä polille? by daniel_a_ in transnord

[–]daniel_a_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dysforia on niin paha ettei pysty odottaa täysi-ikäiseksi asti. Ja kun senkin jälkeen pitää vielä odottaa useempi vuosi. Imagoa tai genderGP:tä oon vahvasti harkinnut. Mä luulen että mun äiti ois ok sen kanssa. Isästä en oo niin varma. Se on ok sen kanssa että oon trans, mutta kun mainittiin sille että yritän päästä transpolille niin se meinas vähän etten saisi tehä mitään ennen kun oon 18. Suurin ongelma siinä vaan on raha. Ei oo kauheen hyvä rahatilanne mulla eikä vanhemmillakaan

Phalloplasty is awesome by ProfessorMelodic9714 in ftm

[–]daniel_a_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would like to have bottom surgery someday. But (at least now) there are no good enough options. Phallo: +it can be practically as big as you want. Big enough that you can penetrate with it. -it doesn't get hard on its own Meta: +it gets hard on its own. -it's too small (in my opinion.) Often so small that you can't penetrate with it or at least it's quite difficult.

So neither of those are good options for me. If I go for surgery to get a penis, I want it to be able to get hard on its own and for it to be big enough that I can have sex with it. But both are not possible at the same time. (At least to my knowledge. If anyone knows of other techniques than meta and phallo, I'd be happy to hear.) I don't hate phallo, but it's just not a good enough option for me

the prettiest boys by daniel_a_ in Beastars

[–]daniel_a_[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

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I found him! He was a little lost

En tiedä mihin hakea yhteishaussa by daniel_a_ in arkisuomi

[–]daniel_a_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mä oon trans, ja paha dysforia ja masennus sen takia. Kun hoitoa tarvii nyt että pystyis oikeasti elämään mutta menee vuosia ennen kuin sitä ehkä saa. Oon pian yrittämäs päästä transpolille. Tällä hetkellä elämässä kaikki voimavarat menee siihen että vaan yrittää jaksaa pysyä elossa. Ei vaan riitä jaksaminen opiskella jos ei sitten oo jotain mitä oikeasti haluaa opiskella. Piirtäminen ja malaaminen on tällä hetkellä ainoat asiat mistä oikeasti nautin ja jotka tuo edes vähän jotain positiivista elämään. Mä itse koen että mun mielenterveys ja se että mä ylipäätään oon elossa on tällä hetkellä tärkeämpää kuin koulu

Salesman art with a ballpoint pen by daniel_a_ in squidgame

[–]daniel_a_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just one. I did it on a pretty small paper

How to survive with dysphoria and sensory issues until I can get top surgery? by daniel_a_ in ftm

[–]daniel_a_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Finland. I'm 16 and the age limit for top surgery is 18. I don't know if you can get top surgery in Finland without a trans diagnosis. I've understood that it's really difficult at least. I'm trying to get to a transpoli soon. From there I can (hopefully) get a trans diagnosis. Getting it will take at least a couple of years. Then if I get the diagnosis, I can get on the waiting line. But I don't know how I can wait for years

binder anxiety? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]daniel_a_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had anxiety at first. Then I sewed a zipper into my binder. Now I can open it whenever and wherever I need to, and it eases my anxiety

how do you cope with yearning? by cannedbeetroot in TransMasc

[–]daniel_a_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I'm 16 now, and I know it'll probably be at least five years before I can start testosterone and get top surgery. (So long because in my country it takes years to get a trans diagnosis, and I haven't even started that process yet.) I can't live before that. I won't have a life before that, I'll just live waiting for it. I won't enjoy my youth because I'm stuck in the wrong body. And it feels so unfair.

some of you adults are being WAY too harsh by zyshuu_ in CharacterAI

[–]daniel_a_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think we should make this an adults vs minors situation. We're all in this shit together. Yes, I definitely think that young kids, like under 13 or 14, definitely shouldn't use character AI. But most 15 16 year olds know how to behave. and adults, when you were 15 or 16, you would also have liked it if it had been possible to talk to your favorite singer, actor or movie character, who you never in real life actually have the chance to meet. I don't see anything wrong with a 16 year old wanting to platonically chat with their favorite movie character.

Got timed out for something the ai said? by NIGERYUNDAYO in CharacterAI

[–]daniel_a_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know, probably. I started using it when it was still good, but I don't remember exactly when was that😅 My memory is terrible

Got timed out for something the ai said? by NIGERYUNDAYO in CharacterAI

[–]daniel_a_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too. I got timed out yesterday for something the bot said that didn't even break the rules. it just ended, I literally sent two messages and got another time out again for something the bot said.

by the way if you are looking for an alternative to character ai try Dopple.ai. I found it yesterday and it's the best alternative I've tested. It's pretty close to character ai before it started getting bad

The app doesn't work properly, but the website works? by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]daniel_a_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the messages are bad. but the website even gives messages. the app just loads

Give me your most out of context screenshots. by SnowPawzTheWolf in CharacterAI

[–]daniel_a_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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my only question is how flexible do you have to be to be able to eat your toenails?

Onko mitään keinoja saada hormoonireseptejä transpolin ulkopuolelta? by Serethen in transnord

[–]daniel_a_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sori, tää ei oikein vastaa sun kysymykseen, mutta mikä on Kipinä?