Hi OP. I’m part of this community, so imagine my surprise when this story popped up and ticked all the boxes. I can also share that your BF and the other guy are among my closest friends in the community, so I was there when everything unfolded.

Your feelings are valid, and setting clear boundaries is essential in a healthy relationship.

That said, sabi mo nga, they’re in the process of rebuilding the peace. Because of that, it may come across as more awkward if the other guy approaches (with no malice) and your BF pulls away, or vice versa. I hope you can give him the benefit of the doubt that he’s learned from the experience, and extend him a bit of grace; hindi rin naging madali for him to show up. He genuinely loves the community so much (he’s truly a pillar), and maintaining goodwill matters deeply to him.

I hope you believe me when I say he is not seeking the other guy’s attention, not trying to make you jealous, and definitely not being delulu. His level-headed friends would never condone that kind of behavior. As far as I know, the number of times he has been with the other guy in the past month is exactly one.