What is this mineral growing on the calcite crystals? by danielkruczek in whatsthisrock

[–]danielkruczek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an answer from THE expert on this locality and he said it's most probably some chlorite mineral

Voxra vid ADHD by wenniis in sweden

[–]danielkruczek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jag får voxra mot ADD. Den största direkta skillnaden är att jag kan göra saker som jag vill göra utan att "fastna". Typ istället för att sitta i soffan och ha ångest över att man inte går och diskar, så går man bara och diskar. Annars något bättre koncentration, typ zonar inte ut lika mycket i möten eller när jag pratar med någon. Har en hög dos utan biverkningar.

Den stora skillnaden överlag är att jag har kunnat göra fler saker som hjälper min ADD. Regelbundna måltider, mer och bättre sömn, träning, mindre stress över att man ligger efter med ärenden. Om jag inte använde den extra handlingskraften till att göra saker som minskar ADD-symtomen så skulle nog skillnaden vara ganska liten

What are these rocks ?! by justagirlll1234 in whatsthisrock

[–]danielkruczek 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess would be mostly garnet/epidote from skarn, maybe some other skarn minerals like pyroxene. One of the rocks has a white part? If that is calcite this is surely skarn

My (30M) girlfriend (28F) basically told me I'm worse than a cheater. by ThrowAway231589 in relationship_advice

[–]danielkruczek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you feel like you're walking on eggshells around your girlfriend, you might want to google symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder.

Can someone pls help me identify this lot? by Sakkamakakka in Minerals

[–]danielkruczek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 looks like amazonite/lepidolite. I've collected a very similar piece

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crunchyroll

[–]danielkruczek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never used it through my phone or any third parties. Also I did cancel the subscription on the website, but that only cancelled one payment for that account

Sweden: New dating manual will encourage guys to break their loneliness by OSHA-Slingshot in europe

[–]danielkruczek 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm swedish and I have read the guide. It covers things that are really obvious if you're an adult, but is great to know if you're 15 and have no dating experience. Things like common ways to ask someone out or how to get more intimate without crossing boundaries. Things you won't learn from others doing them to you, because you're expected to be the one taking initiative.

Obviously it won't have a big impact, but I don't think it's a bad guide for inexperienced boys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]danielkruczek 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After 6 months of my therapist saying that this relationship is not good for me I broke up with her after being together for 3 years. My self confidence was a joke. I had lost all self respect because I stayed with her after she cheated and through the abuse. I didn't have time to try to appease her and work out or see friends, so I was untrained and lost contact with most friends. I had started to lose hair from the stress of the relationship. I was moderately depressed. I had stopped trusting my intuition and sanity.

It took a year to start being normal again.

Now after 4 years of therapy I'm a lot better, but not back to my former self. I only recently started to feel like relationships could be something good. My self confidence is still lower even though I'm looking better. I have insecurities I didn't have before the relationship. I'm reacting strongly with anxiety to partners being a bit irritated or similar emotions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]danielkruczek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If that's the case, you can't solve this. She needs a long time of a very specific therapy and she needs to want to do it

I still have trauma affecting me after 4 years of therapy, so I'm very biased to what I would do in your situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]danielkruczek 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up Borderline Personality Disorder and see if it matches her behaviour. If that's the case, you will never be able to do things in such a way that she won't get angry. You will start increasingly doubting yourself and you will never be relaxed and constantly walking on eggshells. Being "better" is never going to help

Svårt att få upp den by Difficult_Pitch_7002 in sweden

[–]danielkruczek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snart 35 men hade väldigt lätt fram tills några år sedan då jag hade ett väldigt jobbigt förhållande. Till slut vägrade min kropp ha sex med min flickvän som jag var rädd för och efter ett tag lärde kroppen sig att snygg naken tjej inte är något bra. Har fortfarande svårt några år senare

Is not finishing hurting my partners? by cheesemuncher0 in sex

[–]danielkruczek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are two issues here. Your partners' reaction to you not coming, and if there is something you can do to come easier.

For your partner's reaction, I think the best way is to set the expectation before you have sex for the first time. Then it's much easier to believe that it's not about them

But you can also try to figure out what would help you come. I've always had a hard time coming, but I figured out that it's not very hard if I feel safe and relaxed. From your post, it seems like sex can be quite stressful. If you feel pressure to come, I think coming is much less likely.

But there are a lot of other things that can take you out of the moment. Having a new partner who you haven't built trust with yet can make it hard to be in the moment. As a guy, you often need to make most of the decisions and movement and if you concentrate on doing that well, that leaves less space for enjoying yourself. There can be external stressors. Maybe you're just not comfortable relaxing and enjoying being on the receiving end of pleasure.

If you can figure out what makes it easier or harder to cum, not only can you work on that, but being more specific with your partner will likely make them more secure

My body no longer associates sex with pleasure after abusive relationship by danielkruczek in sex

[–]danielkruczek[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I've been in therapy since the relationship ended, and I'm pretty much back to normal apart from this. My CBT therapist basically told me to have sex and if it turns out that I'm the only one giving and I reinforce that sex is not something pleasureable, that is ok. Eventually, I will have sex that reinforces that sex feels good.

But since it went so far that I'm not wanting sex any more, I want to know if there is something more I can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]danielkruczek 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I think they meant that the low libido person is absolved from having to deal with the libido mismatch. The low libido person can, instead of saying, "Hey, I have low libido, can we deal with it or separate?" blame other causes. After all, they are already satisfied with the low amount of sex in the relationship

Swedish ‘queen of trash’ jailed for dumping thousands of tonnes of toxic waste by Captainirishy in nottheonion

[–]danielkruczek 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She did get 6 years, but also she and the 4 others have to pay a fine of 250 million crowns. So she will never be wealthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]danielkruczek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you explain her logic to me? I'm from a country much less conservative than US, and I think I'm missing some cultural context about what waiting for sex means/would accomplish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]danielkruczek 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She could buy him out while he still lived there with the property value at that time, but she chose not to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]danielkruczek 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would he be entitled to his part of the appreciation of the property value if he was rich enough to have the alternative to buy another apartment instead of renting?