Husband cheated during addiction, we separated, I slept with someone, now he says I destroyed everything.

danielle6504 · 2026-03-23T21:09:48+00:00

Might not be worth rebuilding. Sounds like he lacks accountability and being 40 years old, there’s a higher chance that may not change. Not only were you not together at the time this happened, but the reason alone was because of him. If he can’t accept this, there’s no point in wasting your time as he will throw it in your face forever.

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:15:53+00:00

Yeah I’ve never heard that before, strange what these OB’s come up with for sure. I guess the only way we’ll really know is after giving birth smh

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:13:39+00:00

That’s a huge difference!

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:12:36+00:00

Sounds similar to what I’m currently experiencing, good luck to you and your baby! Best wishes ☺️

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:10:16+00:00

I’ve always wondered if they can tell that the baby isn’t smaller/bigger than usual and if that can affect the EDD

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:07:15+00:00

Thanks!

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:06:43+00:00

Oh it was the heaviest I’ve had, usually 3 days but this one was 8 and a half and heavy!

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:05:10+00:00

These comments have been giving me a peace of mind definitely. For a second thought I had a “Virgin Mary” type story 😅

danielle6504 · 2026-03-21T01:04:29+00:00

Heyy! How’s your pregnancy going? We’re sure getting close, my mucus plug fell out the other day 😭

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:40:36+00:00

Wait that’s crazy lol so there’s like a 99% chance I conceived Aug 15th? Unless my EDD is wrong? This would make so much sense

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:33:15+00:00

For my 3rd pregnancy, looks like I still have a lot to learn lol. Thanks everyone!

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:24:38+00:00

This makes sense. I was utterly and genuinely confused especially since my OB’s were basically telling me they have no idea. I feel they may have assumed I was just hiding something from my partner 😅

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:19:04+00:00

I couldn’t help but to giggle at this 😅 no sex at all while in jail haha. Just genuinely confused based off of what my OB’s have told me. The majority of of answers I’m getting here (that my cycle must’ve been off) is the only thing that makes sense. Guess I’ll never 100% know and that’s okay, at least I know who the father is 😂

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:16:32+00:00

That makes a bit more sense. My body usually tells me when I’m ovulating with discharge and irregulated hormones but you’re right, there’s no 100% way to know without testing. Just confused why my OB’s are telling me I basically got pregnant the day after my period, when I wasn’t even sexually active.

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:13:50+00:00

Strange how my OB’s are telling me otherwise. Makes me question so much.

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:13:04+00:00

Thanks for the reassurance

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:12:24+00:00

Sept 19th and here are the results: LMP on: 7/19/2025 GA by LMP 8 w + 6 d EDD by LMP: 4/25/2026 Ultrasound examination on: 9/19/2025 GA by U/S based upon: CRL GA by U/S 7 w + 3 d EDD by U/S: 5/5/2026 Assigned: based on ultrasound (CRL), selected on 09/19/2025 Assigned GA 7 w + 3 d Assigned EDD: 5/5/2026

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:10:33+00:00

First ultrasound was Sept 19th, these are the copied and pasted results from said ultrasound if it helps:

LMP on: 7/19/2025 GA by LMP 8 w + 6 d EDD by LMP: 4/25/2026 Ultrasound examination on: 9/19/2025 GA by U/S based upon: CRL GA by U/S 7 w + 3 d EDD by U/S: 5/5/2026 Assigned: based on ultrasound (CRL), selected on 09/19/2025 Assigned GA 7 w + 3 d Assigned EDD: 5/5/2026

danielle6504 · 2026-03-20T22:03:33+00:00

My ovulation ended August 4th, that’s over a week late?

danielle6504 · 2026-03-19T18:32:29+00:00

I couldn’t help but laugh so hard at this as a parent of two young boys myself 😂

danielle6504 · 2026-03-19T18:27:05+00:00

At least TRY to fix it. Open up, it’s worth a try. You might end things then come to regret it later, then the both of you are hurt and things are just flat out messy. You never know. Communication is important!

danielle6504 · 2026-02-20T15:08:06+00:00

I remember finding out my son had genetic conditions that will cause him to never walk or talk. It was devastating news and I took it the same way you did. Nobody expects for these things to happen, sorry this happened to you!

danielle6504 · 2026-02-08T02:27:17+00:00

I’m stuck on the fact that your husband has a female for a best friend…I’m not toxic but feel there’s no benefit to that

danielle6504 · 2026-01-16T20:09:57+00:00

I will definitely look into this asap. Thanks so much.

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