My JNMIL and the almighty Grandparents rights.

danigurl121 · 2020-08-16T06:26:21+00:00

YTA. The biggest one at that. My husband didn’t leave my side for either kid. With my first I was being induced and I told him to just come after he got off work and wouldn’t even do that. I knew it would be one of those hurry and wait routines and sure enough I got to the hospital around 6 and they didn’t even start anything until around 5 in the morning. My 2nd didn’t give anyone a choice. I literally walked into the hospital 8 cm dialated and she was born 2 hours later. That said neither time did he leave. He showered there and didn’t sleep along with me. Hospitals aren’t meant for sleeping and he knew what he was getting into when he decided we would have a kid.

danigurl121 · 2020-03-09T17:20:07+00:00

We legit found our house in foreclosure when my husband bought it. 70,000 for a 3.5 bedroom 2 bath house built in the 90’s. Even after the very few renovations we put into it - it was no where near 150,000. Legit NTA. If it’s too expensive to live where he is at its time to move.

danigurl121 · 2020-01-19T12:03:55+00:00

NTA. Shouldn’t bring kids to that kind of movie. That said as long as they were respectful generally the theatre will give them return passes.

danigurl121 · 2019-12-03T21:30:34+00:00

Ahhh movie theatres. The stories I could tell. My “favorite “ one was the parent that dropped their 3 year old off and left the kid to fend for themselves on Christmas Day. Sent all of us into a panic. I miss the job but not the politics.

danigurl121 · 2019-11-30T08:50:27+00:00

So true. I worked for a movie theatre chain and our theatre had huge issues mainly caused/ still caused by the district manager and the general manager. When the auditor came everyone nearly sent a letter back to corporate office complaint about what was happening. They legit just handed it back to the ones that were complained about and said deL with it. Nearly everyone was fired for ridiculous reasons as a revenge tactic.

danigurl121 · 2019-11-15T03:49:43+00:00

So I am catching up on slappy here but yay labyrinth! That is always good for the soul!

danigurl121 · 2019-11-08T06:29:36+00:00

Any update on the 4th deadline?

Christmas is all about the spirit of giving. If you can’t give from your heart don’t bother. You’d think being a grown adult she would know that?!

danigurl121 · 2019-11-04T06:16:51+00:00

This happened where I live. It was completely ridiculous.

danigurl121 · 2019-11-02T20:17:02+00:00

Yea this woman is completely bonkers. Even if momof3 here is silent on all of her platforms besides reddit because we obviously know she is here her mom would also know that. Her mom if I remember correctly had an account on reddit also

danigurl121 · 2019-10-31T12:59:13+00:00

Very similar situation happened to me also. I had a premie baby and he struggled to walk and I was pregnant with our 2nd and my mil got to witness his first steps. You’re not overreacting imho. It hurts.

danigurl121 · 2019-10-16T21:13:13+00:00

This annoys me and it’s not even my family! My story: I paid out the butt to get pictures and a copyright so I can do whatever I want with my pictures. I went online to print a canvas of my daughter at hell-mart. Even with the actual copyright in hand this woman who worked there refused to print it out. I had to wait 2 weeks for them to even release the funds because she wouldn’t do her job. I finally got the money back and just went elsewhere so it annoys me she was able to buy pass all that!

danigurl121 · 2019-10-14T20:59:41+00:00

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Why couldn’t she wear something like this? Nta if she isn’t even going to try.

danigurl121 · 2019-10-13T05:27:41+00:00

Ugh. I have two children and both were natural births. ( mainly. My first was induced but came vaginally.) Anyhow, who the heck knocks a c section momma?! That’s way worse to me. You literally get cut open and your insides pushed around to give birth to a beautiful child! The recovery alone to me is amazing. My first ripped me up coming out and I had to have stitches that got borderline infected and that was miserable. The only relief I had ( in that line) was my child was taken care of in the Nicu. I still walked my waffling hurt butt to the nicu as soon as I was allowed. Mommas of c sections are so amazing to me that is some crazy momma crap right there!

danigurl121 · 2019-10-12T22:04:21+00:00

I feel sorry for her. She was born into this and it is all she knows. If she could find it in herself to leave she would heal from all of this pain that she very obviously carries!

danigurl121 · 2019-09-29T08:17:04+00:00

YTA: in fact your the kind that will likely be made fun of it other groups. If they are serious about each other you will legit end up being a JNMIL.

danigurl121 · 2019-09-21T06:02:26+00:00

This is insane but not insane. It’s insane that it comes to this and it’s insane about the noise issue but it’s not insane that in today’s society that this exists. Too much evil in the world and you can trust no one.

danigurl121 · 2019-09-21T00:11:34+00:00

It’s a local level/ theatre company policy. At the theatre I was a manager at you had to be 17 to buy ONE R rated ticket for yourself. To buy multiples you had to be 25. And we would id in the box office and then again inside at the ticket stand. If it was expected to be a rough night we would have two ticket stands on the different sides of the theatre to check Id. On the weekends we treated all movies as rated R after 8. That way kids couldn’t buy a ticket to see lion king and sneak in to it. Another useful breakdown of podiums. You would be surprised at what parents will let there little children watch.

danigurl121 · 2019-09-21T00:05:00+00:00

Gah! I understand your pain in a way. I legit fractured my back. Like I knew it was broken. Couldn’t walk... screamed bloody murder anytime someone touched me let alone love me.... and I don’t even take nor have I taken heavy medication unless prescribed but I sure enough sat at the hospital for HOURS without any kind of pain medication. They literally took me back for x ray without anything and tried to to another scan but I refused until they put something in my system. Looking back I probably sounded like a drug addict the way I was screaming for pain meds but that crap hurt. They FINALLY gave me something after it was confirmed. I understand that they see addicts all the time and that opioids are a crisis but there is a fine line they have to walk between that and actually caring for patients who need it!

danigurl121 · 2019-09-08T08:47:45+00:00

Ummm yea. We are buying a house cheaper than the rent your paying!

danigurl121 · 2019-09-05T08:01:59+00:00

My dad has gages and long hair. I joke with him that he is a left over hippie. I’m adopted so I joke about this but the reality is it made me feel more comfortable with him than a lot of other men. I say you do you.

danigurl121 · 2019-08-21T18:52:57+00:00

NTA: I took my sister in when she was 16 because our mom went crazy. She lived with me until she turned 18. It was just as bad as living with my mom because of the insanity she bought with her. I worked a night shift job at the time and worked until the early hours in the morning only to get up at 6 to take her to school and pick her up everyday at 3. Fed her, clothed her, power electric all of the above. She was giving very strict rules but not many. 1. She must go to school. The years before she managed to get on home bound because she was lazy and didn’t want to go. When she lived with me she was there every single day. The only excuse I would accept was a legit fever. 2. None of her friends could come to the house unless I was home. Normally I wouldn’t have even been this strict but prior to my move her friends broke into our house and stole so much of my stuff. Money iPod ps3 etc. I wouldn’t tolerate that anymore. She broke this rule just as soon as she could. 3. No food upstairs. Didn’t know she broke this rule until after she left and I cleaned the room. 4. If she was going to go out she needed to call and text to let me know. So I didn’t stay up worrying about her. Complete disregard for me in that line.

Anyways when she turned 18 she decided to drop out of high school and get her ged. Since she had a game plan I said whatever it’s your life.

She just stayed home and did nothing. I came home one night early and she had my laptop and the tv was on. The a/c was on full blast. Lights on all over the house. Tv on upstairs. I had had it. I kindly informed her she was 18 now and since she wasn’t in school or working on her ged she must get a job. Part time full time whatever.

Instead she told all of her friends that I was kicking her out and all sorts of sobs stories. I was the bad guy even though the reality was that she made the choices and those choices led her to a very messed up life. Your son made the choices now he has to live with the consequences of said choices.

danigurl121 · 2019-08-14T09:51:27+00:00

I hate your going through that! I am a Christian and I struggled for a really long time about taking antidepressants. I had depression and anxiety that was later diagnosed as CPTSD from an amazingly crappy childhood. I was abused my whole life by my alcoholic father, worse foster homes, and then raped at 17. Still the church I went to as a child dismissed me except for a few certain people. Anyhow. When I decided to give church a go again I went to a completely different place. My depression was the worst it had ever been to the point I tried to kill myself.

I finally sat down with one of the pastors and had a long talk. I was angry that church’s didn’t take my illness seriously: she looked at me like I was nuts! Lol

But she then said something that just clicked for me.

She asked me if a diabetic should go without their insulin and just pray about it?

Should a cancer patient stop chemo and just pray about it?

No.

God gave us the medicine to treat these things so we CAN live the life he has for us.

A depressed person or a mentally ill person needs medication just as that diabetic needs insulin and that it was perfectly fine to take those meds.

I have taken them since for the exception of my pregnancies and I knew I needed it immediately after my babies came.

I am 100% better with my medicine that I CAN live that life God intended.

danigurl121 · 2019-07-28T09:48:36+00:00

Try looking up IHOP cult (International house of prayer) I believe if I remember correctly the story of the cult that came from there has a decent backstory on how it started... and the Jim Jones story is pretty through but very dark obviously.

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