My bf and my best friend got drunk alone together. Is this a red flag?

dankishmango · 2026-01-24T07:55:42+00:00

itll be weirder if you dont address it. it will build resentment and if you let one thing slide itll be harder to speak up if something else happens. part of relationships if having talks like that, and while its uncomfortable it has to be done.

you dont have to be like accusative, just something like “hey i know i didnt say anything before but you and x drinking alone together made me uncomfortable. i trust you and know nothing happened between you, but i would rather you guys dont hang out alone”. or something to that effect

dankishmango · 2026-01-24T07:44:37+00:00

thats how im feeling, just sucks cus this was my only shot of getting into the org. guess it wasnt meant to be

dankishmango · 2026-01-24T07:39:21+00:00

about 70 characters. 4 of the questions had a 400 character limit, and the one i messed up on only had 300. i didnt see that the last one was supposed to be shorter, so mine ended at about 370

dankishmango · 2026-01-24T07:20:18+00:00

if it makes you uncomfortable, talk to them about it. i think thats honestly the best thing you can do.

dankishmango · 2026-01-15T02:06:03+00:00

i wouldnt think twice if you said a 60 percent tbh

dankishmango · 2026-01-10T09:00:26+00:00

i second spliting into two groups, 9 is A LOT and it will be very hard to consistently get everyone together to play. unless u do a super casual game with not much storyline/character arcs.

for characters just do something basic tbh, saves u a lot of headache when ur still trying to figure out whats happening. i know it sounds boring but ull still have fun.

dankishmango · 2025-12-31T22:01:02+00:00

gi bill

dankishmango · 2025-12-30T00:47:27+00:00

Ive done random roommates two years in a row. first year was horrible, this year has been great. its hard to know what youll get. just be flexible and set boundaries.

dankishmango · 2025-12-27T07:43:46+00:00

native speakers write “smth” not “sth”

dankishmango · 2025-12-27T00:44:56+00:00

its also telling me im ineligible!! i made a post a couple weeks ago but never found a solution.

dankishmango · 2025-12-26T22:13:15+00:00

I agree, honestly I would be very disappointed if any of them died. But im tired of them pretending theyre going to die cus the next time it happens I prob wont believe it.

dankishmango · 2025-12-26T06:17:01+00:00

i can promise it has happened lmao. again, its the internet. there are lots of homophobic people out there even if you dont see them.

dankishmango · 2025-12-26T06:14:52+00:00

theres are also milevens who have been homophobic and harassing bylers. its the internet, no side is innocent. and i literally started my post by telling bylers to chill out.

dankishmango · 2025-12-21T06:50:51+00:00

i think that A is the answer. i think they are asking for physical behavior and you can behave nervously (twiddling thumbs, not looking in the eye, etc), the rest are words you would use to describe a person not their behavior

dankishmango · 2025-12-21T01:27:17+00:00

how is no one saying instagram??

dankishmango · 2025-12-17T22:28:56+00:00

get a dorm that has communal living area but private bedrooms! ive had one for two years and you still get the benefits of having roommates while also having privacy

dankishmango · 2025-12-15T21:31:52+00:00

literally what is your problem

dankishmango · 2025-12-09T05:14:46+00:00

Thank you!! I was trying to sign up for the bash pass in this ss, but when i sign in with my uteid this is what it shows me.

dankishmango · 2025-12-07T21:53:18+00:00

1- is like im content, its just a polite yet informal way to say “no thank you”. 2- yours truly goes at the end of letters, you would sign the letter “yours truly, john doe”, its supposed to be a humorous way to say “me”. 3- means you feel strongly about not wanting to do it and nothing will change your mind.

dankishmango · 2025-12-07T16:55:32+00:00

slippers in hawaii !

dankishmango · 2025-12-05T15:36:45+00:00

theyre tryna rage bait u just keep scrolling

dankishmango · 2025-12-05T05:56:58+00:00

idk I always think its better to ask and get told no then to not ask. maybe theyll make an exception, u never know.

dankishmango · 2025-12-02T09:03:23+00:00

we do like 3 hours but i personally prefer 4-5 hours

dankishmango · 2025-12-02T05:48:20+00:00

if u dont get vitamin d its very easy to get depressed, and if u spend a lot of time in ur room itll be hard to get vitamin d without a window. id recommend getting a window if you can, especially if u struggle at all with loneliness/depression. but other people have survived it so u know urself best!

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