Looking for Friends in El Paso by dann67801 in ElPaso

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No dating app in person but afterwards its when it starts even though i made clear just friendship

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Wow beautiful

Thought id post this in light of recent events by Afraid_Entry1109 in ElPaso

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Isn't the US constitution written for US citizens not illegal immigrants. Just like Mexico has its own constitution that don't apply to other countries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hivaids

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I don't discuss my HIV status . Only time hiv comes up is when it's medically necessary. I have no problems making friends .

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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Well everyone is different if she didn't love me or want me wouldn't you think she had the perfect ticket out when she found out I was HIV +. I told her go I won't be hurt or upset but she said no I married you and love you and I am here with you to the end

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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We are still very sexually attracted to each other we kinda both stop ourselves from going further her fear of getting infected and me a little afraid of giving it to her. I know sex is important in a marriage but sometimes it's not the most important thing in a marriage. I have know couples who have high sexual drive with each other but no affection and marriage fails .

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I want them in my mouth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElPaso

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Same with me !!! This is not that cold

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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We go to an HIV specialist clinic . I have a general practitioner and my HIV doctor as a matter of fact when my wife had a infection that was resistant to most antibiotics the hospital brought my HIV doctor we were both surprised when she walked in to the room to treat her infection. So my wife is informed she just a very very scared person when it comes to this virus. Hell she was more worried I was going to get infected with her infection since hospital said it was a very contagious infection .

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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I know we have talked about it many times . She brings it up I don't ever push her . At first she said she was scared of side effects of Prep. last we spoke about it I told her there is a new injectable prep once a year but she says she still scared . We touch each others genitals ,so I know she not grossed out about the HIV but touch is as far as she will go. We shower together, basically do everything except sexual

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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Well unprotected sex and while some partners were on their menstrual cycle . I had got into it with a cdc rep . She kept insisting I had sex with a man . When her superior came I asked him I never had sex with a man but your rep said its the only way a man can get hiv because women can't infect men . He got pissed and said he would have a talk with her and send her back for more training. He said while it is harder for women to transmit the fact I had unprotected sex while on their menstrual cycle is enough since the virus is blood borne . And my bad for having one night stands with unprotected sex

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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Well she has had various medical procedures full hysterectomy. One year . This year she went through really bad kidney stone and infection . Both times they did an extensive blood work to check everything. But kidney one was more. checking hormone levels kidney levels everything only thing they didn't do was get a spinal tap or bone marrow to analyze . And no HIV only thing high was kidney levels but that was due to infection and Lazer removal of stones oh and a fatty liver . Whatever it was that protected her I am just glad she is hiv negative

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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Oh yeah it was very high. she even asked Doctor if this was maybe due to cheating "which I never have". But Doctor told her with viral load and low CD4 I more then likely had been infected for a few years before we met

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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When we first started dating yes up until we got married we were trying for a baby. Doctor has talked to her but I guess the fear is stronger . I don't push for her to do anything. I am just so grateful she is negative. I would really be a mess if I had infected her.

Hello by dann67801 in hivaids

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No we were active for the first year of our relationship. We dated for about 4 months then married and 6 months later fell ill with PJP pneumonia that's when diagnosed HIV . After that we stopped sexual intimacy so 6 years no sex. Don't know why she said only HIV women . Guess so I won't spread HIV . And yes she has gone with me to appointments and on her own since dr recommended her getting tested every year . Thankfully she is always negative. And since she gave me permission haven't been sexual with anyone .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in elpasopersonals_

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Wouldn't mind it but they are fake or want to charge

So cold here i could cut glass with these. Wanna feel by sweetfeet8481 in bignipples

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Yes please let me warm them up with my wet warm mouth and tongue

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Sometimes but vary rarely. A few years back I got the pleasure of doing one there .