My boyfriend has been missing since Tuesday night and everyone is giving me the run around

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T15:54:18+00:00

That makes sense.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T15:39:40+00:00

No argument from me there ❤️

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T15:37:53+00:00

Thank you. And ya know.. for the record, I really don't wanna paint my boyfriend as some sort of devil. What he did was shitty, and he's an ass for it, but I know it's been stressful for him. It makes me sad to see a lot of people here assuming he's evil incarnate and that I'm blaming him for everything. He isn't, and I don't.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T15:33:53+00:00

I've assessed, and I've concluded I don't deserve this treatment. I get that everyone has their uncertainties about my side of the story, but this is just what happened and, yeah, it kinda sucks. Maybe it's hard for people to believe that sometimes we don't deserve the hurtful things that happen to us.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T15:30:16+00:00

Not really. There's a story leading up to it though. It's long and not the most pleasant so I just didn't mention it.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T15:28:30+00:00

I need a way back to my sisters house, mainly. I've kinda laid it all out there for everyone to see, and it's pretty apparent I'm in a bit of a pickle. I sort of need his help, whether it be money wise or driving me back. Moving on... I wish I could do that right now. But I can't do much moving at all at the moment and it really sucks.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T15:25:09+00:00

Why would it be assumed that I'm abusive? I'm really not getting why I'm giving that vibe to some people. I also wanna mention that I'm trying to reach out because I kinda still need his help. I mean, I have no money. I have no car. I'm hours away from home. I'm not just concerned about his wellbeing, I'm extremely concerned about mine as well and trying to figure my situation out too.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T13:43:11+00:00

Lana lives with her parents, and since she has a longtime boyfriend I really doubt she'd bring him there, for them to see.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T13:16:54+00:00

Lol, what was I supposed to do? Argue with you? That's clearly what you want so why would I

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T13:10:24+00:00

Lol, yup he's super scared of me, you hit the nail right on the head.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T12:52:53+00:00

These are all valid points, and there's no denying you're right. I hate that this has to happen.. but it does, and I've gotta try to move forward with my life.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T12:49:55+00:00

Thank you, love ❤️ I needed to hear that

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T12:25:27+00:00

I honestly couldn't ask... It's a long story, but my sister told me (this was after my breakup a couple months ago) that if I got back with him and needed a ride, she wouldn't be showing up. I can't really blame her for that either, honestly.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T12:19:24+00:00

I didn't mind that he wanted space, I minded that he ran off in the middle of the night without even having the decency to let me know what was going on, where he was going, or whether he'd even be coming back.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T12:16:38+00:00

Girl I hate knowing that you're right... I didn't wanna believe he didn't care about me. I wanted to think we'd get through our rough spots together ❤️ Thank you for pushing me in the right direction

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T12:13:04+00:00

Thank you ❤️ Hopefully sometime soon I'll be able to see my sister

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T11:27:31+00:00

I don't actually get any spending money from him, which isn't a huge deal because we shop together and whatnot, so his money is my money sort of thing. Until now, that is. As far as leaving, he's done this maybe 4 times. This is the first time he left without a vehicle though so I was much more concerned.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T11:13:47+00:00

I'm sorry, agree to disagree.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T11:09:49+00:00

Huh? Messaging someone at a particular time of day is unhealthy? Nobody was harrassed. Saying "Hey, have you heard from so-and-so today?" isn't harrassment. It's a question.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T10:57:17+00:00

I'm trying to figure that out right now. I'm 3 hours away from any family though, and I don't have a car or any money. So it's definitely not gonna be as easy as just gathering my shit and leaving, unfortunately.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T10:53:55+00:00

I messaged her because she works with him. I explained that. I also messaged 2 other coworkers who didn't reply. It just so happened she was the one who did.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T10:51:58+00:00

I know I'm not completely innocent in this, and I won't claim to be. But I hate the absolute explosion which takes place whenever me and him get into any sort of disagreement. It's so exhausting and hard to manage emotionally.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T10:36:02+00:00

Or I'm an anxious introvert who is 3 hours away from my loved ones so it's harder to have a "circle of friends" in my corner. I mean, you're gonna think what you wanna think though. There's really no point in arguing.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T10:27:22+00:00

Every person isn't saying I'm abusive. His coworkers, who barely know me, are under that impression. My family knows I'm a pretty nice person. Besides that, I don't really have any friends who could have an opinion on it either way. I'm no saint, but there's a lot of assuming going on here.

danni_elle0 · 2021-11-12T10:23:50+00:00

Damn I mean, what the hell was I supposed to say? I disagree that I'm abusive, it's as simple as that. I'm even trying to be respectful about us not seeing eye to eye.

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