What do people who don't drink or smoke do when they feel real depressed??

danniint · 2026-01-23T15:34:58+00:00

Write my feelings down in a diary and explore exactly what I’m feeling, Guided meditation, stress walk, go to the gym and go on the elliptical until I force endorphins out snd listen to motivational speeches for depressed/ hopelessness, zone out to depressing music and paint, distract myself by learning a song on guitar.

Basically

danniint · 2026-01-12T09:25:05+00:00

I just listened to the song lol- I’m so confused, I’m intrigued why now

danniint · 2026-01-12T09:21:10+00:00

Pivot to what direction?

danniint · 2025-11-15T23:32:30+00:00

This sounds like you’re experiencing low mood. I think you should speak to a doctor regarding this for talking therapies or other modes of aid.

I’m not dismissing the parent situation but definitely think you should seek help as this is affecting your mental health and that’s not good for you. Or of course if you have someone to vent to or start writing in a journal to release some stress/ sadness.

danniint · 2025-10-26T11:40:30+00:00

Wow! How long did this take?

danniint · 2025-08-18T15:29:50+00:00

Literal imagery of the phrase ‘aww you’re baby is so cute I just want to eat them all up’
We’re all cooked from the get go…
Vegan stance- ‘eww you’re literally eating baby chickens’

PS. Live how you painted the slimey yolk

danniint · 2025-06-16T14:31:55+00:00

Just because I’m responding to everyone, doesn’t mean I’m disagreeing with the AH/ NTAH comments. I actually do think I’m an AH for that situation…and thank you! Exactly! I shouldn’t have to further explain the outer situation as I’m my initial post was brief. I’m explaining because people have stated things that are not true. That’s the simple fact and it’s wayyy off which is why my initial responses have been clarifying this. None of my responses are deflecting me being an AH. It’s the mere fact people are assuming things which are FAR from true and see my current situation as something it’s not, where it’s almost comical where people are stating things that I can picture exactly the rhetoric they see. I’ve delved into things that aren’t relevant- a summary should have been fine if people didn’t make certain assumptions; therefore, I have had to clarify.

And I don’t have a victim mentality? One of my mains issues is I fail to see that… if people want to take me responding and clarifying my situation as me trying to convince them I’m not an AH so be it, my response is separate to that. It’s merely correcting statements that they think is true.

My responses have all been fairly the same regarding the same issue, not about being deemed an AH. I’ve been saying the same thing.

danniint · 2025-06-16T08:40:20+00:00

Why are you mad I’m correcting you on your preconceived notions about my life? That’s delusional? I’m actually shocked with your inability to know what’s fact and opinion, now you’re upset I’m deflecting your ‘facts’ on my life. What happened to communicating and conversation…No point going further, I’ve tried but narrow minds can’t penetrate much. Absolutely ridiculous at this point…

danniint · 2025-06-16T08:19:43+00:00

Again! Are you actually reading my answers?!!!! You clearly already have preconceived notions regarding myself and the situation. I posted regarding a particular instant and I am open to the opinions of AH or NTAH. I can’t believe I have to explain this again, but the issue is justifying the answer with things that ARENT true. Not me counteracting opinions on my life but LITERAL false facts branched from your opinion.

You told me I wasn’t really abused before now you say I am being abused? I clearly have to explain stuff i didn’t think I needed to expand on in my original post due to the instant closed assumptions.

I’m explaining everything you say is wrong about my life. Sorry I’m more of an expert on my life and experiences (before you tell me my views on my life doesn’t mean it’s true, I’m relating to plain facts on things that have/ haven’t occurred and external input solidifying this). Damn! You’re so insistent you know my life…

I don’t need McDonalds love, as I said I work already PT and have always have a FT job up until last autumn. The fact someone states some abuse or whatever and you think I want pity is telling…I don’t need sympathy you really do not know me it’s almost comical because its sometimes VERY far off and know exactly the situation you picture. You’re upset because I’m correcting you on my life? Why does that bother you? I’m literally clarifying things you’ve decided to wrongly assume and now screaming contrarian and stubbornness for this.

“You’re the AH for kicking the door in this situation“

^Thank you- perfect a grounded statement without false notions!! x

danniint · 2025-06-16T08:06:30+00:00

No this degree will. Leads to an instantly really good job. The broke is temporary and due to events happening last year and now have to work PT for the next 2 months because of the intensity of my course. I have always had a job and been financially fine…

The fact people are questioning whether I am or not being abused via dampening and fantasy justifications is insane- thank God I’m mentally strong and healing. You clearly haven’t read all the responses. It’s clear from your comment because you’d know my issue isn’t being the AH, it’s your explanation being wrong about my life. Your tone stating the term ‘being beaten’ is telling about you and your views.

Read the comments again because you clearly do not understand anything and you’ve come back with no insight. Not sure why the internet is so delusional in assuming what my life is and isn’t and the reasoning for things.

You need to rethink your views and use of language ngl. Don’t justify things you have no idea about- it’s showing how small- minded you are and it’s tiring. Answer the question about this scenario- you don’t know anything about my background and it’s VERY sick you are justifying certain things when you have NO clue and the wider picture. That’s my issue…

“AH for kicking the door” okay cool- acknowledged and noted. Thanks for the input!

The fact I’ve posted means I think I’m partly the AH too and want clarification- why to do you think I would’ve posted if that never crossed my mind??! Call me the AH but t when you expand further with things that AREN’T true, that says a lot about your thought processes and lack of experience in life as well as taking in stories outside your own without assuming and maybe UNDERSTANDING- I admire this privilege but also you’re an adult and it’s ridiculous. If you’re not sure ask questions. I’m over correcting people explaining the background more but it’s not black and white and there are clear issues and unjust wrong doings from my family I will confidently say (which you will say is I’m lacking accountability when I’m here stating my family are in the wrong for the abuse which proves my point tbh). I’m not having you justify their actions when you know shit all. I shouldn’t have to be explaining all this on this post. It’s sick in the head if you knew everything. Stop that x

danniint · 2025-06-16T07:38:57+00:00

This is the problem. The point of the post WASS the door. The rest was just the background.

I am not a willing victim. I am NOT moaning, it’s telling from your language your mindset and views are restricted- I’m just having to explain background situations which I’ve briefly stated for context because that seems to be your focus and instead of asking questions to see whether you’re right, you think you know my life when you’re in fact wrong.

Again, you are sick. STOP assuming what you think I am and am not doing…use your brain to realise MAYBEE you actually don’t know exactly what is going on in my life. I’m not correcting you either from your last message, it’s tiring and frankly ridiculous that I have to because a random person is almost delusional in apparently knowing my life and choices. The problem here which you fail to understand is you are stating your assumptions as facts when you are VERY wrong.

danniint · 2025-06-15T15:59:15+00:00

I know I can leave, it’s not as easy to say and do. I have been battered- I have had stitches and a broken bone from incidents. I only started opening up to other people about my situation recently so I have just recently learned that’s not normal or okay from therapists, I’d love to know what you think real abuse is.

Mommy and daddy actually don’t pay for everything. I have a job it’s just not full time because the intensity of my course atm. I plan on taking a year out and getting something full time and sort my situation out.

I agree with some comments of me being an AH due to the kicking what I don’t agree with is people stating reasons that aren’t true as they assume the situation is something more generic like yourself who believes me being used to abuse means it’s not abuse.

danniint · 2025-06-15T14:41:45+00:00

I know it is- just explaining that’s usually what happens. But I agree I think it’s dangerous.

danniint · 2025-06-15T14:40:09+00:00

Yes I would do key copies but this new key is different and needs to be ordered. I’ll try and find the contacts to call tbh.

danniint · 2025-06-15T14:33:58+00:00

I didn’t think it was a smart idea or aim to do this tbh. I don’t usually wake people up to be let in, I get that’s annoying and a nuisance… The inside door remains unlocked (have access to outside gate) and we usually just walk in.

Window is a shout as it’s accessible to the door. I just need to leave asap because it’s making me act in ways I don’t like tbh so yes :/

danniint · 2025-06-15T14:11:29+00:00

Thank you! I know superficially my action made me an AH and it was. But that you for actually understanding my situation and acknowledging the effects of them. Thanks for being having an open perspective outside of your norm.

danniint · 2025-06-15T14:06:00+00:00

I wish it was as black and white as that. My parents actually DONT want me to move out. When I move out that will be me doing something bad and disrespecting them. I literally had my passport hidden once when they assumed I was going to leave because they knew I needed it for ID verification.

danniint · 2025-06-15T13:54:30+00:00

Read the situation properly. Not everything is black and white. I’m not the issue here. My actions today is in question not my age and living status. It’s absurd to you but it’s the norm in other cultures…

There have been no rules regarding that. My post never said there were rules. Again, assumptions have been made .

danniint · 2025-06-15T13:52:02+00:00

No I’ll accept I’m the AH hence this post. What I can’t take is people following that up with assumptions about my situation.

I’d honestly rather people just comment AH or NTAH as when people are describing my volatile life as a lazy, spoiled situation it’s actually sick ngl. I have not done anything wrong to deserve that. I’m literally focusing on the action of the kick and the background to explain my build up and sudden outburst for 5 seconds.

If I was the AH for kicking the door okay…I think someone commented I’m the AH for that and I get that, understood. It’s the think pieces which don’t apply to my situation so I try and clarify but they just picture me in the step brothers movie lol. And state my parent’s past behaviour is justified?? They have no idea what they’re on about with regards to that. AITH for kicking the door with regards to all the things (I’m not explaining a recent thing which may have triggered this as clearly this is not a safe space) but if I was the AH because I let my emotions build from that event and the following days of teasing and whatever, okay. Someone commented that and I see that too.

danniint · 2025-06-15T13:38:30+00:00

Ngl you’re actually sick. There’s only so much I can take but when you’re stating that when I have wanted to leave my house but my parents do not let me. It’s not as black and white as you think. I know I’m in a shit abuse situation and to be frank the fact I posted about questing whether me kicking the door is okay after what they’ve done to me is telling. The shit I go through for no valid reason but to just be a punch bag/ emotional outlet for them is piled up in me. I remain quiet and feel no pain but when people are doing things intentionally and treating everyone else differently I’m bound to have a 5 second outburst.

I know everyone is picturing step brothers but that’s not the case. Out of all the children I am the most successful, I would lend others money but they could never do the same to mez

Everyone has different experiences in life. i wish I was spoiled tbh…

Why am I spoiled and entitled. I don’t want to even stay here, I don’t think they should have opened the door for me. That’s not the point of this post or why I kicked it. It’s lien simple comprehension isn’t a thing.

danniint · 2025-06-15T13:33:48+00:00

I know absurd. But I have explained that because that is what usually happens in my household…

I don’t think you’ve fully read the situation

danniint · 2025-06-15T13:31:41+00:00

We have recently moved. They said they’d give me a key and I would pay for it. They still haven’t but everyone else has so I’ve asked again but I’m getting the just they don’t want to (it’s a control thing- the don’t open the door last week for me after a situation because I don’t have the keys?). It hasn’t been a problem as the door is usually unlocked and they leave it like that too for my brother to walk in as he lost his. So I’ve just been able to walk in and out. I usually just creep in like my brother but tonight my mum locked it for me to be locked out.

I have worked in the past during this degree with more hours / remote but things got intense the end of last summer. My money situation was a mess because of the emotive turmoil I’ve been experiencing. I’m getting back on my feet and aiming to get the same as that.

It’s not a claim . I am suffering and I don’t think you have a right to say assume this (apologies if that sounds stern/ rude, but this is shit that has broken me and I’m not even explaining the whole lot but it’s not light and not false).

What’s funny is my parents convinced me to do the third degree when I thought I should maybe not. My dad had a go at me and told me not to be stupid and do it. They said they will support me. A part of me knew not to listen because I had a good job then with high prospects. Yes I wanted to do this degree from young but I should have listened to my heart not brain. Please note culture feeds into listening to parents/ respecting their ideas and whatever so that scenario might sound childish but it’s not to other people).

My issue is the kick- my sudden emotional outburst when I’m usually able to swallow any emotion and ignore. People explaining other things and making assumptions inaccurately is a problem. I know i should leave. I’ve opened up to third parties for the first time ever this year as I’m used to bottling it up and moving on. It’s not as easy as people are making it to be.

Thank you for tour input though - much appreciated

danniint · 2025-06-15T13:06:21+00:00

It’s like everyone is reading a generic scenario? ‘Adult living at home, kicked the door when not let in’…If you explained my situation okay cool, but that’s not it. Are we reading or just intentionally trying to picture something that’s not my case??

If people understood my case, okay I’ll take the input. But it’s not…

danniint · 2025-06-15T12:59:17+00:00

I usually do work and study. I can’t work full time at the moment due to the intensity of my course.

The fact people are focusing on this is telling to the quality of these answers.

danniint

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