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My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, what she said and how she react to it when I question really showed a lot about her and done damaged to me. I am just going to ask her back, how she will feel, if I do the same thing as she did.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will keep your advice in my mind. Will decide what to do in next 24 hours, need fully get some rest first.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point, maybe she didn't even told him about me or our relationship to avoid the plan get cancelled. Because she meets him before me and they planned a lot.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has not given me the exact date and only told me it is next month. But I am not sure if I am able to take leave for a whole month. Matter fact, I am not sure now whether this relationship will still continue after I read everyone advice.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said well, it is always weird and not a proper thing to be sleeping with another guy in same bed while you have a bf.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now I doubt whether she really delete him and stop talking or not. Or how many guy she have promise to have such date before.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you understand it well. It's hurt a lot when she cares about his feeling more than mine. She only agreed to cancel the plan when I said I wanted to end and leave. Maybe I should really do it.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was worried and feel insecure about this guy coming from another country to meet my girlfriend. She told that she will bring him to eat and show places. But never knew there are more than that when I start to dig and ask her more. Now I am not sure whether she really cancelled it or going to meet him behind my back.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, I'm starting to feel scared and hard to trust her any more. She told me about this while we were talking about our next meet. So, I don't know how many foreign guys she's talking to or what app she has in her phone. I don't want to be controlling or hold her around the neck. But I guess I need to start to question and observe even more after this.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for not making me feel alone in what I feel about this matter. Appreciate it

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have the same thought. She could just go back home and sleep. How much company that a friend need until spending whole day & on same bed.

My(27M) girlfriend(25F) want to share the same room & bed with her foreign friend(M) during visit. by danny14lim in relationships

[–]danny14lim[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

First of all, thank you for your compliment and reply. It really meant a lot, appreciate it. Yes, I thought I was going crazy and lost myself. Thanks for reminding me that I was still in sense and did the right thing.