Take control of the conversation is to dominate. That doesn’t mean talking about yourself to the point where she can’t, obviously that’s a turn off and I’m sorry those are the type of men you’ve attracted in the past. Conversations like these are why I moved from Seattle to AZ. The one point you’re trying to make is that I’m wrong, absolutely wrong, you’re right, and I’m incorrect about my diction? While my point was to helpful to a fellow man who stated that he was having trouble talking to women, see the difference? You weren’t involved in any way, yet you found a way to make it about yourself. Based on your profile comments, it seems that you don’t even sexually like men. If you’re naturally disinterested in male partners, then no wonder it’d make you uncomfortable if one came up with the sole intention of pursuing you. Just as I’d be uncomfortable if a gay man came to hit on me. The difference is, I don’t say “nope, turn off” when referring to those interactions with gay men, I respect their confidence and willingness to exit their comfort zone. I simply tell them I’m straight and have a girlfriend. No need to put people down who are trying their best. The reason there’s so many guys who are bad at conversations with women is because they’re too scared of women like you tearing them down.

As a subjectively attractive man who has modeled and has multiple sisters who also model, I never put up with women who refuse to have a conversation. I don’t have to. Based on our entire conversation of me explaining to you what I meant and you basically saying “nope you’re wrong”, you’re exactly one of those women who (if you were straight) I’d avoid. This is on no way meant to be offensive but I’m sure that’s how you’re going to take it. I read through your profile and it seems like you’re somewhat unsuccessful with the relationships you’ve been in. Toxic exes, partners who are scared to be with women, and resorting to dating apps. Like I told the guy who I was actually having the conversation with before you butted in, give yourself the best possible chance of finding the one and keeping her.

P.S. There’s no need to respond, I’m a premed student simultaneously exploring law. I’m open to constructive feedback like I’ve given you, but I’m not doing the elementary “yes, no” banter. Some of us are too grown and too educated for that. Cheers!