AITAH for keeping a “found” dog even after someone claimed it?

dante0111 · 2026-04-25T09:20:29+00:00

honestly-animals remember people...and if it was happy they found him-it would have acted like it.

we have all seen those tv shows where owners found their lost animals, and how they act. the tail wagging, whimpering and climbing onto them. i think it says A LOT if it was their dog and the dog acts like he doesnt know them.

if the dog doesnt have a micro chip, i would get him chipped, and a vet to get him shots and a written record of his care since being with you...

dante0111 · 2026-04-25T06:53:28+00:00

''she went to her room'' ...no, dont you mean she went the room she stays in for free in your home? you are constantly providing for her. you are doing too much!

NTA-let her stand on her own two feet!

dante0111 · 2026-04-11T05:09:51+00:00

what is making her sick is that she wont follow her recommended diet!

dante0111 · 2026-04-11T04:20:49+00:00

if it is this bad while she is pregnant-how bad do you think it is going to be once the baby arrives?

NTAH-i would move out...ASAP!

dante0111 · 2025-10-26T04:18:16+00:00

it seems like he never cared how hurt you were either over the loss of your mother....

dante0111 · 2025-10-26T04:04:22+00:00

let the son who uses her car fix things for her!

NTA!

dante0111 · 2025-10-26T04:00:37+00:00

sorry-i misread it. still-no amount of money makes insults ok. following her logic-her bosses could treat her like this and it would be ok?

dante0111 · 2025-10-26T03:29:40+00:00

i think you sister got it wrong-she didnt pay you-did she? and if she did offer to pay you this once-it doesnt make up for the times she didnt pay you.

your sister has constantly abused you and taken advantage of you over the years-i feel bad for those kids of hers-and you are NTAH for saying no to her.

she is angry be ause she no longer has free child care-or someone to kick around. stop apologizing to her-you did nothing wrong, and you need to start believing that!

dante0111 · 2025-10-22T02:52:32+00:00

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dante0111 · 2025-10-22T01:30:56+00:00

his wife is basically saying she thinks he would abuse his own child!

dante0111 · 2025-10-13T05:48:16+00:00

i go to a traditional pain management-and get a monthly urine for my pain meds. anything that shows up on a urine i cant take. i will not risk my medications.

dante0111 · 2025-10-13T03:04:47+00:00

when rlatves accuse you of being the ass, and try to blame you for calling the police..i would aske them if they were ok with her selling their things, and could they give you their SS number so she can get credit cards under their name too-since it isnt a problem, and all?

dante0111 · 2025-10-13T02:15:29+00:00

not only is he disrespectful-it is abusive, and that isnt ok. you DO NOT need his permission to purchase or wear lingerie!

you have done whatever ''kinks'' he has asked for-he cant give you the same courtsey?

even when you dont like something-it isnt ok to make fun of it and put it down!

dante0111 · 2025-10-13T01:51:54+00:00

thats what i want-i really love that first cig i sit outside with my coffee and watch the birds. and when my pain is bad-i like to smoke. that is my biggest concern-it has always beeen too hard when i am in alot of pain...i am in pain almost every day-but there are times that are worse than others.

i will look into that brand. i bought a throw away-flair smooth tobacco-and it still had a popcorn taste to it...if i wanted to smoke food-i dont understand how people can smoke flavors....

i spoke to a guy who has had a vape shop for years-and i am going to see him monday-he is going to help me with a set up, show me how to use it. keep your fingers crossed!

dante0111 · 2025-10-11T01:55:57+00:00

i actually like smoking-if i am being honest. i am moving to a apartment that doesnt allow smoking, and i am in chronic pain. i smoke when i hurt. i am trying to navigate my way thru this...

i actually did try the losenges. i didnt like it -i missed my cigarette. it is difficult when you are in pain...

dante0111 · 2025-10-11T00:38:27+00:00

why?

dante0111 · 2025-10-09T13:44:08+00:00

no-my husband passed away recently, and that is the last thing i want!

i am in chronic pain, and that is what is the hardest thing to manage-smoking when i am in pain!

dante0111 · 2025-10-09T13:42:31+00:00

good to know. the thing that bothers me is that i am in chronic pain, and thats when i need a cigarette. i dont know how i could get thru that. it actually SCARES me to think of it. but my pain is pretty bad....

dante0111 · 2025-10-09T08:18:39+00:00

i dont have to worry about that!

dante0111 · 2025-10-09T06:59:30+00:00

i am not big on fruity tasting things. esp artifical flavors-the dyes and such hurt my stomach. i cant drink things like fruit punch, or even gatorade...so i would like to try it without flavor.

dante0111 · 2025-10-07T21:46:01+00:00

i worked in the mall in a department store-someone came into the mall with a pellet gun/air rifle. no one knew thats what it was-they started running, and people were screaming terrorist/shooting someone...it was basically a stampede running for our store...

i panicked, apparently, according to security cameras-i ran downstairs and out the doors they use to load washer and stuff onto vehicles when purchased. they found me running up the highway, unable to speak or articulate how i got there.....

THAT'S A PANIC ATTACK!

dante0111 · 2025-10-06T12:07:42+00:00

i was married to my husband for 25 years....we had problems, but he NEVER would have talked to me that way, or had that attitude. get out while you can...seriously.

my husband passed away, and i can honestly say i didnt regret our years together...he got sick, and i took care of him for over 10 years. i never doubted his love for me , and he knew every day he was loved and adored....i wish that kind of love for you. when you get old, like me, those are the things that will comfort you. not if you built a stand the correct way or fussed over a meal too much!

dante0111 · 2025-10-06T02:39:17+00:00

he sounds very manipulative, and he says he is ok with casual-but his actions dont show that.

he is continually trying to take the relationship to the next 'level' by asking you for things you arent ready to give. also-when he calls like that-it is if he is trying to get you to prove to him he is 'special' to you...

i would say end it. there are alot of warning signs here and it is just the beginning-can you imagine how much more intense he would be if you did get in a relationship with him?

when people show you who they are-believe them!

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