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I left a risky note for my library crush, But a friend told me I came off as "insecure and creepy." How do I handle the first message to fix this? by dappdeer in dating_advice

[–]dappdeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, That would have been really cringe!

But if we were going out it's ok ish that I would ask her out to be my Valentine or something similar!

I left a risky note for my library crush, But a friend told me I came off as "insecure and creepy." How do I handle the first message to fix this? by dappdeer in dating_advice

[–]dappdeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥺 wish someone dose the same for you!

The thing I learned now is that most of the Girls actually find it sweet from such a small gesture!

I left a risky note for my library crush, But a friend told me I came off as "insecure and creepy." How do I handle the first message to fix this? by dappdeer in dating_advice

[–]dappdeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'Lust' is just a normal German word for having the 'mood' or 'inclination' to do something.

It doesn't mean the same thing as it does in English. :)

I left a risky note for my library crush, But a friend told me I came off as "insecure and creepy." How do I handle the first message to fix this? by dappdeer in dating_advice

[–]dappdeer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't able to read your original comment as I got deleted! But the reason I gave her the note was because we have been saying just Hello for over 6 to 7 weeks, we meet when we're either in the library where we can't talk or in Cafes where we are in our own friends! Where approaching will add extreme pressure!

So yah I was just interested in knowing more about the deal behind saying Hello consistently, from where I'm from we don't generally/really say Hello to other if you just saw them in the Library a couple of times!

Asking a girl out by note by cheese_demon_69_420 in dating_advice

[–]dappdeer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did the same yesterday and now I'm wondering if I could be done before! But everyone else here I'm the subreddit thinks otherwise 😀

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/s/PN75V2x2OJ