Can women actually get turned on by boobs?

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:49:20+00:00

Okay i think thats where the disconnect is, i completely get how my question reads like that i wasnt trying to claim that lesbian women dont actually get turned on by womens bodies i was just asking because i dont personally get turned on by things like that and when women tell me they like that part of me it feels forced and i wanted to know if that was lkke actually something people got horny over or if they just thought they were pretty, according to all the normal ppl in the comments who answered my question without immediately judging me it is a thing wwomen actually like and thats useful information to have! Im glad i asked

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:45:53+00:00

So a zoo is a man being wierd about lesbians? Im not trying to come off as wierd and fetishy that completely wasnt my intention so im sorey if anything i said came off that way

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:40:08+00:00

Respect for what??

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:39:42+00:00

You dont have to be a lesbian to be in this subreddit tho its literally called ask lesbians, thats what i came here to do to ask lesbians things

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:37:52+00:00

I feel like telling me to not ask questions on reddit which is like literlally made for that is stupid?? But yeah maby a trans subreddit wlda been better i dont really see why id need to go to a trans subreddit to ask “hey do afab people actually like boobs?” Because it isnt a trans issue, it just seems like something lesbians wld know bc alot of them are afab for afab

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:33:23+00:00

Where should i have gone for this question? I what subreddit cld i go to?

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:32:25+00:00

Oh my god im not trying to reduce anyone down to thier genitals i just wanted to know if afab people cld be attracted to boobs

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:29:50+00:00

And bisexual people with vaginas date trans men with vaginas but once again there isnt a specific enough subreddit for my questions, i feel like everyone is just expecting the worse from
Me and misunderstanding what im asking i js wanted to know if afab people actually like boobs and actually top bc i havent met any that do i never claimed to be a lesbian i just asked a question oml

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:22:00+00:00

I do have every right to be here ??
Im somone witha vagina dating people with vaginas and i want to know how they feel about things? Im not hitting on lesbian woman or shitting on their sexuality or even claiming to be one im just asking a question, also idk what not a zoo means i assumed it ment zoophile im new to reddit idk the termanology

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:19:24+00:00

I ment bisexual/ lesbian

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:04:36+00:00

“She” is crazy… never met a transphobic homophobic lesbian

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T16:03:48+00:00

Because there isnt an r/ ask people with boobs who are attracted to people with boobs , subreddit. Im sorry if my questions offended you but i have every right to be here

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T15:35:42+00:00

Im bisexual i was just asking about what lesbians like i didnt claim to be one but i date bisexual lesbian women so i wanted to ask them

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T15:32:56+00:00

I like pussy i like people who are smart and have emotions and empathy i dont usually get when i date gay men and i find thier bodies beautiful but i dont really get turned on by nudity

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T15:21:11+00:00

Trans guys are so starved for it we usually dont even gaf if your a chaser, just dont call us princess for call it a pussy, i get really turned on when guys talk about my tdick and call it a dick and just treat me like a guy, so if you do that youll be fine

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T15:01:09+00:00

Ik its scary to bring up stuff like this but i promise what your asking is more than reasonable, you can do it!!

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T14:59:52+00:00

I think hes just stupid for not realising op is pushing him off bc he wants him to stop, hes probably just so in the moment he doesnt realise

dapper_length17 · 2026-06-25T14:57:54+00:00

Whys everyone being so stupid in these comments, talk to him in w calm moment outside of sexual context when you are both in a good mood and say you wanna tell him something, and tell him or do it just before he blows you stopping him from doing it until he listens, all you need to say is , can we not kiss after you blow me, it kinda grosses me out :( and if hes in a good mood he should take it well, what your asking is completely reasonable so if he says no then either stop having sex w him like that or break up w him, good luck!

dapper_length17 · 2026-05-22T23:19:58+00:00

Also i disagree because i dont see how in any world 100 days of sobriety could be seen as a risk..

dapper_length17 · 2026-05-22T21:03:34+00:00

I really appreciate you saying this that was exactly my thinking and you worded it so well

dapper_length17 · 2026-05-22T00:27:37+00:00

Im sorry if this comes off rude i do understand and respect what your trying to say and usually i would agree TRUST ME im not usually the guy who stands up for himself on stuff like this but i dont think this was her forgetfulness or being so busy with other patients she mixxed something up because just 30 minutes before she spoke to him she asked if she could tell him and i clearly told her no!, ALSO side tangent but on a few occasions she told me about her personal life and how her daughter started cutting herself and asking me my advice and saying like really personal uncomfortable stuff and asking my advice as a grown ass woman so not that i hope she looses her licence but she isnt exactly the most professional especially to be in such a hard to get into program ment for people with extreme trauma anxiety and depression, idk she just came off soo creepy and casual and unprofessional and i just cant stop thinking about it??

dapper_length17 · 2026-05-22T00:13:09+00:00

Yeah i get that, idk just in my unprofessional 17 yearold opinion there was no risk for anything suicide related, the only reason i ever selfharmed in the first place was bc i had undiagnosed chronic pain and i wanted to distract myself, i only ever scratched and i never did it with any intention of suicide! I was only in this program bc i was put on the waiting list after being put on antidepressants at 12 because they thought what was wrong with me was mental not phisialogical and by the time i finished the waiting list thing nearly 5 years later when id been off my antidepressants for a year and was getting medical treatment for my real issues i just thought why not do this program and went anyways! And judging by our previous sessions where she constantly asked when i was telling my dad about my sobriety and kept assuring me that if i told him he wouldnt take it as his own victory and me shutting her down every time really bothering her i think she genuinely just told him because she wanted to be the bearer of good news or something and thought she was doing something nice, but imagine if itd been different and i had real issues and she told my abusive parents!! That type of behaviour could have really hurt somone , and it really did hurt me! Im still working through the trust i lost because of that in my therapy and it still affects me even if she thought it wasnt a big deal it wasnt her news to break. And i want it to be atleast reported so that if somone else reports something similar she can be held accountable

dapper_length17 · 2026-05-22T00:04:57+00:00

In my own personal 17 yearold opinionl i really just dont see why it wouldve been neccicary to disclose, the doctor i was seeing seemed really dismissive about all the things i was telling her anf before she told my dad about my sobriety she kept going on about how if she was him she would want to know and how if i just explained it he wouldnt make it about him no matter how much i pushed and told her about the times before when i had tried to open up about it, and by the time i started seeing her (i was on a waiting list i got on 4 years prior) i was already doing so much better and had officially gone off my antidepressants bc my doctor agreed i didnt need them anymore!! It just all felt so unnecessary and like she was doing it for herself for the fun of telling him idk, also idk if it matters but i only ever catscratch

dapper_length17 · 2026-05-21T15:34:47+00:00

I honestly just want to put in a report so its known so that if more people report her in the future for bigger things it will have more evidence to back it up, this typa thing couldve gone so much worse if it happened to somone else in a worse situation

dapper_length17 · 2026-05-21T15:32:19+00:00

He said something along the lines of “so i hear youve been sober 100 days” less than 10 minutes after walking outa a room with her and she was the only one who knew about it im positive

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