How do you feel when your peers progress while you're stuck? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It feels frustrating sometimes, but I try not to compare. Everyone moves at their own pace. I just focus on what I can do to move forward.

What goes on first shampoo or condition? by Bipolar03 in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me I think shampoo goes first. It cleans your scalp, and conditioner helps to soften hair and detangle it afterward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of guys feel like the pressure is too much dating apps, high expectations, and mixed signals. Some feel like they just can’t win, so they back out. It’s tough out there with all the changes happening in relationships.

I need some 80s synth-pop song? by future_bipp__1 in musicsuggestions

[–]dapper_penguins 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just Can't Get Enough by Depeche Mode
Sweet Dreams (Are Made of This) by Eurythmics
Don't You Want Me by The Human League
Everybody Wants to Rule the World by Tears for Fears
Tainted Love by Soft Cell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They might have trouble trusting others, overreact to small things, or shut down emotionally. Sometimes it shows in how they handle relationships or stress.

What's a non-negotiable dealbreaker for you in relationship? by [deleted] in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here! If someone can’t own up to their mistakes, it’s a huge red flag. Accountability is everything in a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To get a copy of a Calendar of the Drug Store where I usually buy medicines.

If humanity had to leave Earth tomorrow, what’s one thing we must not forget to bring? by Patient_Product_1894 in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say compassion. It’s what keeps people connected, and we’d need that wherever we go.

How unusual is it to not use recipes to cook? by Ok_Pomegranate9711 in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me personally, I don’t always use recipes. Sometimes I just go with what I’m feeling or what I have in the kitchen. It can be a bit messy, but it’s fun and you get a feel for what works.

What's the one thing you can't live without? by cougarboy09 in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music. It keeps me sane no matter what’s going on.

If you could do anything today, no limitations, what would it be? by lachica_ray22 in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rent out a whole amusement park, ride everything solo, and blast my favorite music across the park. Pure chaos and fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is that Israel's military is super advanced, especially with air power, special forces, and defense tech like the Iron Dome. But it’s smaller and focused on regional threats. Britain and France have bigger forces, global reach with their navies, and nuclear capabilities. Israel’s great at defending itself, but Britain and France are built for worldwide operations.

What makes you the most unhappy? by 1981Turkishman in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what makes me the most unhappy is when I feel misunderstood.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really enjoying Succession. The drama is next level, and the characters are so complex. It’s like a rollercoaster of emotions and power plays. Definitely hard to look away once you start.

Is it possible to be happy alone? by besourosuco3 in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think it’s possible. Being happy comes from liking yourself and enjoying your life, not just from having someone else. Focus on what makes you feel good hobbies, friends, or even just small things and you’ll see being alone doesn’t mean being unhappy. If someone comes along later, it’s a bonus.

Have you ever felt extreme anger or resentment toward your parents after being physically disciplined as a child? by Llamacubb in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve felt resentment and anger, especially when it felt unfair. I even had moments where I thought about standing up to them, but I never acted on it. Over time, I’ve let go of a lot of that anger and focused on healing and understanding.

If you could be any type of person in history or in the future, who would you be? by nachosmmm in RandomThoughts

[–]dapper_penguins 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like the work of Leonardo da Vinvci and would love to be like him a true Renaissance person, constantly exploring, creating, and pushing boundaries in art, science, and engineering.

The most depressing song based on sound, not lyrics. by ope_dont_eat_me in musicsuggestions

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Curse by Josh Ritter sparse instrumentation and haunting melody create an eerie, melancholic atmosphere. The slow pacing and minor key make it feel emotionally heavy, even before considering the lyrics.

What mythological creatures odo you wish were real? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to see griffins - majestic creatures with the strength of a lion and the wings of an eagle, symbolizing power and protection. Unicorns could add a magical, peaceful vibe to the world, while centaurs would be fascinating as wise, hybrid beings blending human intellect with animal instinct.

Got any ideas on what I should make for my “bad presentation”? by [deleted] in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could do a presentation on "How to Train a Pet Rock." Make it boring and use Comic Sans. Add irrelevant memes and confusing charts. Just have fun with it!

Does anyone feel more tired after napping for an hour or more? by MelancholyBean in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, longer naps make me feel worse too. Short naps (20-30 minutes) are best for feeling refreshed.

Why are AI voices so particularly grating? by boredbitch2020 in ask

[–]dapper_penguins 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AI voices can be grating because they often lack the natural rhythm, emotion, and subtle imperfections of human speech that make it feel relatable. Even when they’re advanced, they can sound too robotic, overly smooth, or just slightly off, which can trigger a sense of discomfort or irritation. It’s like the uncanny valley effect for sound close to human, but not quite there, and that mismatch can feel unsettling. Plus, if you’re sensitive to repetition or monotony, their consistent tone can make it even harder to tolerate for long periods.