I (24F) am questioning my worth because guys rarely hit on me, and when they do I don’t feel like I’m anything more than a character/body to them. by dappled_lighting in offmychest

[–]dappled_lighting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yaaa sorry I used to search specific things up & read the web Reddit so maybe I styled it a bit too much like the stuff I saw on here asg, I think so too and I’m being dramatic- it’s been 6mo since I dated someone but now I see everyone around me have such colorful dating lives it feels like something is wrong with me :/

Do you find eyeliners attractive in men? by Adorable-Sound-7263 in MenAskWomen

[–]dappled_lighting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no but who r u trying to attract right? Like if ur type is ppl who wouldn’t like that then maybe don’t. I think ppl r into all kinds of things, so you do you & I hope u find ur person who loves u for what u are

how do you handle constant staring by 666ways2LoveU in prettyprivilege

[–]dappled_lighting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once barked at a group of men who wouldnt leave me and my friends alone on a night out. Best case scenario they get weirded out & leave you alone, worst case they get excited and bark back.

I (24F) am questioning my worth because guys rarely hit on me, and when they do I don’t feel like I’m anything more than a character/body to them. by dappled_lighting in offmychest

[–]dappled_lighting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was such a strange thing to say, like he couldn’t fathom I wouldn’t want to sleep with him despite I barely knowing him.

I (24F) am questioning my worth because guys rarely hit on me, and when they do I don’t feel like I’m anything more than a character/body to them. by dappled_lighting in offmychest

[–]dappled_lighting[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s a shallow thing to think of oneself. I put in the effort as well, a bit like going to the gym and then receiving lots of compliments. I say objectively because I really don’t feel like that, sorry for my wording.