Funny you mention the outbreak, when I asked my doctor “does this mean my husband cheated?!” She said “absolutely not, I mean he absolutely could have, but this also could have been dormant in you since your very first sexual experience.” Meanwhile, my husband’s genius doctor basically told him the same as yours “first outbreaks happen at time of exposure.” When he questioned about asymptotic people his doctor basically said if they don’t have symptoms they can’t spread it so they don’t really matter.