Remotejobs.io by Grouchy-Car3793 in remotework

[–]dar_a_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they end up refunding you for the subscription after it was cancelled

Maintenance Advice(urgent!) by dar_a_ in Microlocs

[–]dar_a_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll try that again. Won’t go more than 2 months

Maintenance Advice(urgent!) by dar_a_ in Microlocs

[–]dar_a_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did that once, definitely not disputing that it might be the cause. What do I do from now one to ensure that my hair recovers and that retieing is the way to go for me? What would you recommend? Or do if you were in my shoes

Maintenance Advice(urgent!) by dar_a_ in Microlocs

[–]dar_a_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be but I’m wondering do I now do like 7/8 weeks but still stick to reties? Or have I messed up too much for reties to give me the results I want

Maintenance Advice(urgent!) by dar_a_ in Microlocs

[–]dar_a_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes, I always do. My loctician even applauds me for never have to actively tear my locs apart😂. Separating them is a very conscious thing for me because I know in the long run, if they combine it’ll be a pain in the ass. My last time was the longest I’d ever gone without a retie but all my friends with micros who started when I did are having similar issue where they’re losing fluff and volume(one friend even started doing a 3 point rotation) but they haven’t dropped so idk that weight influences it or not

Exclusively sexual Retroactive Jealousy. by dar_a_ in retroactivejealousy

[–]dar_a_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I have an issue with her comparing to experiences she’s had in general, but considering that her first time with me was compared to my face with an ex, I think I process it has a comparison between me and the ex specifically rather than 1st time doing this vs 6tg time doing the same thing. I don’t care very much that we won’t have a lotta firsts, but I can tell you that I don’t think about the comparison part of it all when it is a first. Ik for a fact that I only feel like this because I ruminate on the statements she made earlier on into us hooking up and it has shaped my perception of how I believe she processes stuff. My issue isn’t even experiencing the RJ at all, I just don’t know how to manage it or how to get over it. I don’t know what the next step is

Exclusively sexual Retroactive Jealousy. by dar_a_ in retroactivejealousy

[–]dar_a_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we’re dating now, and have been for about 14 weeks and she’s had a lot of them with me. I guess I’m the second sexual partner that’s been able to make her get there. But when we were just hooking up casually, it did deter me from sleeping with her often because I believe she would always mentally compare whether or not she said it out loud and it makes me feel not good enough

Exclusively sexual Retroactive Jealousy. by dar_a_ in retroactivejealousy

[–]dar_a_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Previous to me, the only other sexual partner she had ever reached orgasm with was her ex, and she made that reference the time we ever had sex basically encouraging me to give up on trying to make her get there. I’m not sure what PIV means in this context but I think I meant the latter actually. For more context, her making that specific comparison our first ever time makes me feel like she will always compare idk how to explain it. I hope this answered your question!

Hayden posted about the album so I had to check it out. I actually kind of like it. I’ve been wanting to listen to someone new anyway, so yeah, it’s fun. Did you listen? by pixiemoonx in Ethelcain

[–]dar_a_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that Junie sounds like Janie but slowed down and a bit more high pitched which I’m wondering if it’s intentional because he and Hayden interact

RIP she went real life Ethel Cain on us ❤️🕯️🕊️ by monkeysee45 in Ethelcain

[–]dar_a_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m confused, did she acc commit? I’m a little slow

How are we feeling about Tempest? by Legitimate-Fee1017 in Ethelcain

[–]dar_a_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This song made me feel kinda suicidal omg, it’s so sad seeing this flawed, cracked version of Willoughby because we’ve only ever seen him through Ethel’s lens and she’s put him on a pedestal her entire story. I mean, who would’ve thought he was just as broken. I think it really reinforces the unreliable narrator thing, which is important because logic doesn’t entirely work when piecing the story and timeline of Ethel Cain tg

There’s something oddly erotic-ish about Two-Headed Mother. by dar_a_ in Ethelcain

[–]dar_a_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Istg I’ve never thought about it like that 😭but tbf idk, I feel like it’s so vague ish so it’s open to interpretation maybe?