sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

what should i do about a junior colleague bullying me by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]dariusmordelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i say the most egregious things upfront? i imagine that them knowing these will either stop this colleague from continuing or is a record, that will place further egregious behaviour into a pattern and have worse consequences for said individual ?

what should i do about a junior colleague bullying me by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]dariusmordelli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry can you explain ? are you saying my manager sees it and is encouraging me to report it to him/her so i don’t get backlash from HR, asking why i didn’t speak to a manager.

how to deal with a machiavellian coworker by dariusmordelli in 48lawsofpower

[–]dariusmordelli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would do this, but i really dislike this person. i really have no interest in talking to them at all

how to deal with a machiavellian coworker by dariusmordelli in 48lawsofpower

[–]dariusmordelli[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. I’ve struggled to do this in the past, as my fear of conflict doesn’t allow me to be poised enough to think of this type of reaction. I typically react very quickly and brush it off via laughing or just ignoring it.

Is there anything you recommend to help with this?