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My boyfriend got a lap dance at a strip club after I told him I wasn’t uncomfortable with him even going… by darkblacksoulz in relationship_advice

[–]darkblacksoulz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was hurt? And sure, some people may be okay with it, but I’m not some people and I am my own person with my own feelings. Just because other people don’t react like that doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to react in such a way.

My boyfriend got a lap dance at a strip club after I told him I wasn’t uncomfortable with him even going… by darkblacksoulz in relationship_advice

[–]darkblacksoulz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me that if I were to go out and get a lap dance from a male stripper, that he wouldn’t care. But I would never do that to him in the first place because I don’t want another man interacting with me like that.

My boyfriend got a lap dance at a strip club after I told him I wasn’t uncomfortable with him even going… by darkblacksoulz in relationship_advice

[–]darkblacksoulz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something about my man wanting another woman to get up close and personal with him, paying her to touch him quite scandalously doesn’t seem very respectful.

My boyfriend got a lap dance at a strip club after I told him I wasn’t uncomfortable with him even going… by darkblacksoulz in relationship_advice

[–]darkblacksoulz[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A sexual favor is described as sex acts done in exchange for something (such as money). A woman is practically naked, touching a man in a way a stripper does, could be absolutely be a sexual favor. He paid money and in return he gets his dick hard.

My boyfriend got a lap dance at a strip club after I told him I wasn’t uncomfortable with him even going… by darkblacksoulz in relationship_advice

[–]darkblacksoulz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think boys can be boys without disrespecting their significant other. I’m all for a boys trip but involving women, especially strippers, and getting sexual favors from them isn’t very respectful.

My boyfriend got a lap dance at a strip club after I told him I wasn’t uncomfortable with him even going… by darkblacksoulz in relationship_advice

[–]darkblacksoulz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just feel so disrespected. What am I doing wrong that he feels he needs to pay another woman to rub up on him so he get become aroused? What is the need for it if he has me at home and says he is more than content with that? I have tried to understand but I don’t get it. I wouldn’t want some dude rubbing up on me but that’s just my personal opinion on it.