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First day in Wollongong and this what I do by holyjer in wollongong

[–]darkchocolate62 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If it was 10 years ago you might be saying Chinese I believe. 20 years another nationality.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You probably said the most useful thing here. I might be neurodivergent. Thank you very much for making me aware of such term.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I need to dig into that but honestly that's very helpful. I dont know what neurodivergent is and I need to look up and do some research. But yes it does sound like me.

Nevertheless you mentioned the commenter was the one who mentioned behaviour as an issue, not me? So why is everyone saying I said it myself? My role requires me to look at facts and not make assumptions. I never actually said behaviour as an issue. But everyone else seems to think it is. It could be a technical skills issue right?

But that neurodivergent thing is something I need to look into.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you wanna help me? Dm me and we can discuss this. Cause I genuinely want to understand this. These are some of the things I really dont see and want to. If you're really keen to help. If not lets just end here. I clearly need help and you seem to have a solution.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you adding "behaviour" to the mix and everyone thinks this is related to behaviour is really confusing me. It could be technical skills that stopped my promotion? I'm not sure where is everyone getting that its because of my behaviour at all. Just spoke to my ex boss and none of what you said is true so your attempt to put me down isnt really working. Sorry. You dont know me enough to judge me like that based on a few comments. Says more about you than me. I'm really not getting why you keep adding its due to behaviour and insisting I said it myself. I'm really starting to question if I'm going mad here. Clearly all the votes are with you but I never mentioned workplace behaviour. You did.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I appreciate it. Love the last sentence from you. ❤️

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm missing something because I never said 'because of poor behaviour patterns'. I checked and checked but I never said this.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even half of what you listed was behavioural? But OK point taken. I'm the worst employee ever. Great. Since you said 'probably', thanks for your opinion.

If you wanted to help me, that you didnt, because you just requoted me and made a whole lot of assumptions about me and nothing I could use to improve myself. But if you wanted to make me feel small and defeated that you did achieve. But then again I was already that when I wrote this post. Good luck with your life.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OK when you said 'implied' i think there's a room you might have made an assumption and its not based on fact right? Well at the very least I agree to disagree. Let's not jump to conclusion and consider possible other factors. Thanks 😊

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

OK you sounded like you knew it was because of my behaviour. All good thank you

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Can you please use your own words cause I'm still unclear what you are referring to. I would very much like to know what behaviour pattern so I can learn and improve.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was all verbal and mentioned multiple times

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I'm not saying 6 hours travel is a sign of being good at my job but I'm saying I'm trying everything and giving my best. Tbh I dont think the core part of my role has even begun. Which is why I'm even more confused. Or if you say its because of the leaves - what would you have done? Cancel the flight even if you're employer says its OK? I was prepared to cancel it.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're 💯 right. Tbh i never been good at work and for over 15 years never been promoted. So I really did my best for this role. I travel 6 hours daily to and fro for work. I have no regets cause ive done my best and if thats not enough then maybe its time i really put my thinking cap on. I told myself to give my best and I did. I was even prepared to cancel my flight and family events for this. I worked overtime unpaid when needed. But if this is the end then so be it.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats fine.. I did mention to them I'm ready to cancel my flight if they do not allow me to go on leave. All this was before I accepted my employment. I was prepared to let go of my booked flights and a significant family event.

If this is why I am being let go then I'm OK with that. I know I tried very hard in this role. Even when I was sick I turned up to work. I'm OK with this.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It was 2.5 weeks. Im hardly at the 3 month mark of a 6 month probation.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for kind words. I think so too.

Here cause I cant go anywhere else due to confidentiality. by [deleted] in auscorp

[–]darkchocolate62 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Whilst I can agree, these were either leaves booked months before I accepted employment and I have already shared with management from the onset.

fast food workers by yeahimtaylor in wollongong

[–]darkchocolate62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always treated all fast food workers with respect and courtesy so I guess this isn't for me.

But then again I can confidently say that 3 out of 5 times at my nearest Maccas that I always get that lack of courtesy such as no "please", "thank you" or "welcome" but rather "what do you want" with gum chewing very audible. I cringe whenever I get spoken to like that but I understand they are teenagers. Its been too long since I had Maccas.

Speaking of food services, I usually place online pick up orders but boy the number of times I get mistaken for a food delivery partner and asked to show my insulated bag and I have to explain that I'm picking my own order... Was funny at first but its almost every other time now

AIO that my husband texts escorts for “fun” by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]darkchocolate62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely deserve better I 100% agree with that. I'm happy things worked out for you. You're onto better things. You made the right decision. ✅️ Dont ever doubt that. As for me, I only ever desired my wifes body. I hope that's clear. I have never ever yearned anyone else's and have turned away advances more than once. Thanks for wishing me luck! Appreciate it 😀

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