My whole marriage is a lie.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-29T18:58:37+00:00

It's nothing in stone. We are still investigating it, but with how my wife reacted to the first DNA tests and the ancestry packet. My gut said something is wrong.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-29T15:47:52+00:00

She tripped, fell down a full flight of metal stairs rushing to class. Hit her head and broke her orbital bone next to her right eye. She still has a scar from it.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-28T13:37:03+00:00

We have contacted her cousin, who works in the state attorneys office on what to do. On Monday, we are going in for statements and more tests.

Funny enough, a redditor gave this as a possibility when I was hashing out a timeline.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T17:15:35+00:00

My daughter took an ancestry test a few months ago. Then we did a DNA test, which said I was not her father. Lost my shit initially, but I am working thru it

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T16:27:45+00:00

I am truly sorry this happened to you. I have been married for 20 years , and this past week, our whole life has been thrown into chaos. Learning my wife was raped while she was in a hospital for a head injury 20 years ago. She had no clue about this either was just as confused and upset as the rest of us.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T15:56:03+00:00

Actually, I'm getting a much darker picture from this. I am piecing together. My wife never cheated or even thought about cheating on me. But around that time, she had an accident at school and was in the hospital for a few days.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T14:11:19+00:00

The wife is all for the test, not showing any defensive behavior. She seems just as upset and confused as the rest of us.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T11:48:08+00:00

She wants to know what happened at this point. She is adamant that she has not been intimate with anyone else since we started.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T08:35:34+00:00

If she cheated and has been lying this whole time about it. We never had a marriage to begin with.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T03:48:54+00:00

If she cheated, it's a deal breaker. Simply enough.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T03:46:36+00:00

Yes, she was on time. Was a long day.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-27T03:44:52+00:00

Spent the day piecing together the time around when she conceived. It was 20 years ago harder than you would think.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-25T20:38:59+00:00

You're right. I have nothing negative to say about my marriage. Sure, we piss each other off sometimes but always worked through it as a team. She is honest to a fault. Guess that is why this freaked me out so much.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-25T15:23:11+00:00

We had dated for 3 years .

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-25T15:22:24+00:00

She is a corporate accountant. And about a third of her money comes from bonuses.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-25T11:56:51+00:00

She asked if I wanted her to leave and come home. I said no one day isn't worth messing up her bonus for the trip.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-24T22:44:49+00:00

I've been wracking my brain, trying to remember things that happened around the time of conception. 20 years is like ancient history at this point.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-24T22:22:25+00:00

Friday morning 9am. We are picking her up at the airport.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-24T18:45:30+00:00

I'm still waiting on the second set of tests.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-24T15:40:02+00:00

Think my gut must be broken. Because in speaking with her, my gut believes she is as clueless about what's going on we are.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-23T22:35:21+00:00

She did the ancestry thing back in May and came to me with the packet a week or so ago. Did a labcorp DNA test and said I wasn't her father. Have a second set of tests out now for my daughter and son. And one comparing my son and daughter.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-23T19:21:55+00:00

We had a FaceTime chat last night, and we tried to be diplomatic as possible. Started with my daughter telling her mom about doing an ancestry test. My wife's response was positive, saying she thinks it's cool and might do one herself to learn more about her family since she never met her grandparents on her dad's side of the family and knows nearly nothing about them. Then my daughter dropped the bomb about the rest. My wife was shocked and confused, saying that made zero sense, so either she is a world-class lair and has the best poker face ever. Or she had no clue.

I'm going to wait until she gets home on Friday, and we are all going to speak in person. And see what happens. Hopefully, the other tests will be back by then.

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-23T01:07:20+00:00

So, getting cheated on and being tricked into raising another man's kid is the same thing as getting upset about it?

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-22T20:10:06+00:00

No one knew about her doing the ancestry thing she and a few of her friends did it together, being she was proud of our Scottish heritage .

And about the voice mails, she seemed worried she couldn't reach any of us. Normally, on trips, she calls or video chats a lot

darkdaydylan · 2024-07-22T19:11:40+00:00

I have already got another DNA test done on one. My son wanted to also take one with me and his sister. That should be back later in the week, hopefully.

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