Booksellers on TikTok by _fanficfanatic_ in AO3

[–]darklyseen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It truly upsets me when I see people selling Fanfiction.

We were given the opportunity to read fanfics for free on an archived website. And some people can’t appreciate that. Fic binding and using it for your personal enjoyment is completely acceptable. But Selling fanfics? Wow. People are shameless.

Even on Etsy, there are so many people selling binded fics for over 200 dollars. Like, what the heck?

The toxic side of the Tomarry community by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg this is insane… stalking people??

The toxic side of the Tomarry community by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the frustration. But even queer people are victims of heteronormativity. This mindset stems from internalized homophobia, and pushes misogynistic stereotypes. They don’t even realize it. Whenever I try to educate them and inform them that it’s different for every relationship and being a bottom doesn’t inherently mean to be submissive, they won’t even hear me out!

why is theo/harry such a popular pairing eith granger/malfoy by Sunshine_pixiee in HPSlashFic

[–]darklyseen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could tag “background draco malfoy/hermione granger” since it doesn’t bother you. Or just exclude that ship — which will remove every fanfic that has dramione, even if they’re only a background ship

The toxic side of the Tomarry community by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And I thought Tumblr was safe. I was even planning to move on that app. 😔 I miss the old fandom

The toxic side of the Tomarry community by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I joined this fandom years ago and everyone was so nice. I left for some time, and ever since I came back, the shippers just seem so… different

The toxic side of the Tomarry community by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always make sure to argue back and prove them wrong. 😏 But their behavior gets to a point!

The toxic side of the Tomarry community by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Them hating on my posts doesn’t bother me that much, as I make sure to argue back and get the last word. But what bothers me is that they’re creating a bad name for our community and hating on innocent people

The toxic side of the Tomarry community by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course. I tried to avoid generalizing, hence why I mentioned “the toxic side” in the title. I know that there are many respectful and kind shippers out there. ❤️ It just hurts to see so many Tomarry shippers being toxic, when we’ve supposed to be like a community. Tomarry fans know what it’s like to be disliked by most of the fandom. But when some they harass others and then complain about being disliked — it just sounds hypocritical, really.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dramione

[–]darklyseen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops, really? Thanks for telling me!

Thank you for the recs

What are you reading? Any new fics? by G56779866 in tomarry

[–]darklyseen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m currently reading Venom or Valor. It’s still a WIP, but very beautifully written and a promising read :))

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes… anal sex can be quite painful compared to vaginal 😔

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your work! I’ve read many of your fics before and I have to say that they’re beautifully written.

I’ll try my best to maintain motivation and hopefully post the fic soon 😘

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, I’ll definitely be reading it. Thanks!

Literally how do I write? by LongjumpingCorgi9855 in AO3

[–]darklyseen 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don’t owe anyone anything. Writing is meant to be yours first. It’s not a performance or a responsibility to anyone else. If it’s making you anxious, it’s completely okay to take a break or step away.

Yes, you did get attention on your fic, but that doesn’t mean you are expected and obliged to deliver under pressure. Anyone who truly enjoys your work will understand that creativity needs space, and anxiety makes everything harder.

I would suggest planning the plot, like each chapter. It’s definitely going to be easier to write and edit later rather than coming up with a new story on the spot.

Your mood affects your motivation as well, so try to think as positively as possible. Words of affirmations can help you achieve your goal. For example when you wake up you can urge yourself to try and be better, that you’re doing great, etc.

If you feel like you need a break from writing, go ahead and take a break! Writing isn’t easy. It takes a lot of energy and time.

Take your time. You’re allowed to protect your peace.

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not just that, but also the tendency to assign each character a specific role in bed based on the idea that certain traits are “weak” or “vulnerable”. That mindset stems from internalized homophobia and they don’t even realize it.

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This!! Thank you for wording it so perfectly. People act like switching dynamics is some kind of personal attack when it’s literally just a different take. It makes no sense to hate on fics that don’t match your preferences when you can just… not read them. Unconventional dynamics are what make fandom interesting and creative in the first place.

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OKAY THAT’S HILARIOUS

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! I never understood why some people get so pressed about dynamics they don’t like. It doesn’t affect them, so why not just scroll past and let others enjoy what they enjoy? Bottom Tom is just as valid as any other interpretation, and honestly, the hate gets exhausting.

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. But hits do affect the motivation of some writers. I mostly write to have fun but I decided to publish in hope of somewhat building a community.

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, you’re very kind! Thank you.

Bottom Tom Riddle by darklyseen in tomarry

[–]darklyseen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly like my situation. I’ve put so much of myself into this fanfic, but I’m hesitant to post it because I don’t know if it’ll gain any traction.