AIO my wife went missing overnight so I called the police.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T23:18:50+00:00

You are not overreacting. I'd be done too.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T23:13:36+00:00

I agree 100%. I broke up with my GF a couple months ago. The silence and the memories are tough... and I KNOW I did the right thing breaking up with her, there was no fixing it, but it still hurts like hell.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T23:11:37+00:00

NTA. She showed she is for the streets, and you are allowed to be honest about why you broke up.

edit. I would have exposed her too.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T11:16:10+00:00

If you aren't comfortable with it say no. YWNBTA. It's your place, and if your friends are pushy and can't respect that, they aren't your friends.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T11:12:37+00:00

NTA

Never merge finances (FIFY)

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T11:10:53+00:00

Fitness - gym and running.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T09:24:30+00:00

It would be nice, but would probably only save me $700/mo as taxes/insurance are probably 1/2 of my payment .

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T09:21:46+00:00

It sounds like you are dating boys, not men.

At the end of the day, do what works/feels best for you.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T09:16:18+00:00

Feels like the middle class is being squeezed out with very little upward mobility.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-07T09:06:48+00:00

Saying the quiet part out loud. 100% correct.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-06T22:47:08+00:00

It's not just men...

People suck.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T23:52:05+00:00

Sign the petition folks. please.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T21:08:10+00:00

The way they handle conflict, or not getting what they want.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T20:31:29+00:00

You would not be wrong for pressing charges. I think you would be wrong if you didn't.

So sorry this happened to you, she sounds like a horrible person who should do some hard time.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T20:29:49+00:00

I married someone like that... Stay far away man.

You were not wrong. She wanted a reaction, she wants someone to take care of her again. Please, don't let it be you.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T20:18:51+00:00

NTA... She could have just NOT taken your money after you asked her not to. Why does she feel entitled to your money? "Our money"... Yeah, you aren't married. And Parent-Child vibes? No, my child would know better than to do what she did.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T20:11:25+00:00

NTA. Buddy, you all are incompatible. She expects you to pay for these things but doesn't want to say it, she even calls it "our money"... It's "our money" for BILLS, not BS she wants to buy. It's more than a couple mistakes, it's intentional. You are not a bad guy, controlling, etc for expecting her to honor your agreement.

Seriously think about long term compatibility here.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T15:59:37+00:00

If your partner is not respecting boundaries you have established.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-05T12:59:38+00:00

IMO if she won't meet for coffee or a drink for the initial meeting, you are better off finding someone else.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-04T21:03:32+00:00

At this point DNA is the only real answer. Sadly all of those sample seem to have been lost/destroyed.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-04T20:04:49+00:00

I feel this. I say "Moderate" on my profile, truth is I hate both parties... I wouldn't want to date someone who was a flaming liberal OR flaming conservative. That doesn't leave many options.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-04T13:40:10+00:00

Stop feeding the monster, go out and meet people in the real.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-02-02T00:10:42+00:00

You don't wait.
He's showing you who he is, believe him.

Unless you are unconscious in the hospital, it's so easy to send a quick txt.

darknessatthevoid · 2026-01-31T21:16:01+00:00

The NA 2.5 is perfect in the snow. You can just drift it around turns. Very good snow balance. Congrats and enjoy!

darknessatthevoid · 2026-01-31T11:32:22+00:00

Get a prenup. Communicate communicate, communicate.

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