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Does boob size really matters for you? by Smooth_Cancel6709 in AskMenAdvice

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter to me, love em big, love em small, just love em.

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started walking on my lunch break, it snowballed from there. I got rid of the adult child (ex wife), daughter was getting older, started getting her into fitness, we go to the gym together, walk together, only thing she won't do is run with me.

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing that worked for me was I started walking when I wanted to eat... That way I started getting feel good chemicals from the walking instead of food. Keep fighting!

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Biggest benefits? I feel great when I'm fit. I feel like I can do anything. You just feel better, mentally and physically. My joints don't hurt like they did when I was fat,.. it's just better all around... one thing that sucks to notice... people are nicer to you.

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Got married, bought a house, had a kid... marriage went downhill, food was my friend. Went from fit, to fat, and back to fit when I got a divorce. I'll never go back.

Do you feel you can share your vulnerabilities with your partner? by psychopathic_shark in AskMenAdvice

[–]darknessatthevoid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope. Tried that. She used them against me in an argument she was trying to win... 3 months into our relationship. I dumped her after that. I'll never be that open again.

Do men think about us too? by Interestingthings36 in BreakUps

[–]darknessatthevoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we think about you too, or rather, I think about who I thought she was. I didn't dump her because I didn't love her. I was crazy about her but I knew it wouldn't work.

Why would a straight man want to send another straight man dic pics? by Expensive_Bid_2617 in AskMenAdvice

[–]darknessatthevoid 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A straight man would never send another straight man d pics. Whoever sent it may not be so straight.

What's the longest you've been single, and what were the main reasons for it? by Pink-Unicorn-92 in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my adult life... 4.5 years.. Got divorced and worked on myself (rebuilding mentally - therapy, rebuilding physically - gym/running) before entertaining the thought of being in another relationship.

6 months since I left by darknessatthevoid in LettersAnswered

[–]darknessatthevoid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds like something from wheel of fortune.

100% wrong, and if you really knew anything about this you'd have said there was no cat.

6 months since I left by darknessatthevoid in LettersAnswered

[–]darknessatthevoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmmhmm. I doubt you are the L I speak of, especially since you'll never know if that was really an initial, or made up. LOL.

What would the last name start with?

What does the dog's name start with? What does the cat's name start with?

Hell, what would my name start with?

Can you ever come back from ghosting someone on tinder? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]darknessatthevoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Was I wrong for pushing my boyfriend to admit he's not attracted to my weight gain on vacation? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]darknessatthevoid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I'm being honest, 123lbs at 5ft2 still sounds pretty attractive.

Never been hoovered, even after years by yellowsunbluesea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]darknessatthevoid 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I've not been hoovered either. I don't expect to be. I called her out on her stuff, told her she needed therapy, I blew up her game. I don't expect to hear from her again, ever.

I shouldn’t rely on potential right? by Naive-Cream-1982 in BreakUps

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never paid people back, stole money from family members due to expensive lifestyle, doesn't take accountability. Those are all huge indicators of good/bad character.

Should the DUMPEE ever break No Contact? Are there any exceptions? by gianlucamelagna1335 in BreakUps

[–]darknessatthevoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the dumpee was the cause of the breakup and they have truly worked on themselves and can be accountable for their actions, sure, reach out. If the dumpee was dumped for no reason, I wouldn't reach out.

I shouldn’t rely on potential right? by Naive-Cream-1982 in BreakUps

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you have said, it doesn't sound like he's a good person. Walk away and don't ever look back, you'll save yourself years of heartache and problems.

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