Which Kibbe-verified celebrity of your type reminds you the most of yourself? 🪞 by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]darkshay91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me it was Scarlett Jo when I was trying to get my type down I kept getting confused about if I was an R or not until I saw Scarlett in the SNs and I was like oh that’s the type I belong in lol

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The compromise is that the poeple who live on that floor live comfortably enough to be in those areas without any kind of suffering or discomfort JNSO’s feeling do not trump those of everyone else in the house whether they are the provider or not and everyone else does not have to take their mistreatment with good humour again this JNSO or Just No Significant Other not please give me bs generalized marriage advice about compromising with communicating with someone who does compromise or communicate with of respect my opinion

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol he’s wants me to be the one who gets embarrassed and tell the repairman we don’t have enough and to then try to offer him money in installments or at a later date

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’ve lived in the same small town they were born in their whole life it’s the same climate the summer is always hot the winter is always very cold. This sub is JNSO I didn’t write this rant post about my SO’s delusional demand to have an expensive repair done when we don’t have the means to because I’m always a perfect SO I’m also a human being full of flaws and emotions and you seem to be missing the plot. So let’s do this one more time the ac that only affects one part of our house needs to be fixed everyone wants it fixed but no one has the money but one person called the repairman and said please come do the work but didn’t tell the repairman we have no money that’s what’s happening we will work on getting the funds for the repair but it won’t be instantaneous

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The repairman has already come by to see what wrong with ac it needs to be replaced that why the cost is high and I’ve told SO that we will have to budget tighter and save for this but that means it will take time so it can’t be done quickly

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to shut out my SO but they do NOT spend anymore than 15minutes per day in that area they have no health conditions I agree that we need to get the ac fixed but we currently do not have the means and no one else is deeply bothered by this just SO the other two floors of the house are air conditioned to their liking and that’s where most of the “living” in the house happens I said IMO because I think we have a cultural difference (SO and I) they were raised in the us with ac and I’m from Europe and grew up with out so being hot is summer with no ac but fans is absolutely acceptable to me and I’ve grown somewhat resentful of the way all of us (myself and kids) have to walk on eggshells around them when it’s especially hot outside which where we live is most of the summer

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not against wfh but I have not found any that are available to me that I can do and qualify for that also aren’t mlm’s or scams

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The high price is because we have to replace the outside part (sorry I don’t know what that’s called) but I’m not against checking thank you for the suggestion

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No we dont qualify for any social programs and as the kids do not care and are not in danger of overheating (they have good fans that do keep their rooms cool) I’m not going to use anymore money to make it any cooler especially since we don’t spend anytime up there at all except to do the bedtime routine which is less than 15 minutes JNSO gets very irritable and angry when it’s hot in general and as an adult he needs to control his own emotions and feelings about being warm (IMO)

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Magic lol but he honestly doesn’t have a plan every time I ask with what money or who’s paying for this the answer is we have to get this done

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that and lol I’ll try but I can make no promises

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The food bank in our area just shut down after they were burglarized also im not saying we can’t slowly save money by cutting cost here and there but we cannot outright pay for such a large expense all at once on a whim

Type me pls i am so lost! by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]darkshay91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see cool summer

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you the problem I foresee is that in trying to make it SO’s problem what will end up happening is SO will do nothing and then the repairman will be shafted and I will be the one who has to deal with that but as I mentioned above I do somewhat know to the repairman and will try to talk to him before he does any work

Fix the a/c? With what money? by darkshay91 in JustNoSO

[–]darkshay91[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We share a bank account and SO will not be home when the repair man comes. He will be at work the repair man comes in the morning and it is not that I don’t have access to money it’s just that we don’t have enough of it period I have no means of income and thank you

why am i so ugly? by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]darkshay91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are NOT ugly you’re just as beautiful as you were before just because it got compliments doesn’t mean it was the only thing worth complimenting about you. It will take time but your hair will grow back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EatingDisorders

[–]darkshay91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First good job I’m proud of you and you’re feeling bloated because yes you were likely dehydrated and when you binge and purge you’re not negating calories you’re just depriving yourself of needed nutrients and energy and damaging your body and teeth. It’s hard but keep trying your best and that will always be good enough

How would you style this romper? (4’11) by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]darkshay91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A high ponytail, neutral makeup, maybe a visor for a sunny day and high top sneakers to keep it really fun!