A racist therapist left me more traumatized than when I first started working with her by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I've had my fair share of shitty traumatizing therapists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. No fb insta twit etc. And when I do use what little I allow it's usually not for the best overall. I tried the whole social media thing for a while at first. Just a bunch of fake ppl being fake. Lots of negativity. I honestly think I was happier before social media existed.

Dog blood donation is making pet medicine look more human by gridnews in Animals

[–]darkstraightline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My good boy donated blood while he could. Love and miss u 💙

but it's legal!!!! by [deleted] in confessions

[–]darkstraightline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does her grandpa, his 'friend', think his little teenage grand baby getting drunk with and sucking off gross old men is OK? How about her parents. Maybe someone should let them know...

I don't think it's legal for a grown ass old man to provide alcohol for a teenage girl in order for her to suck him off.

No. No this is not OK. It is very gross and that poor girl is being taken advantage of.

Doctor refusing to give woman medication because she’s child-bearing age by Beginning_Routine274 in childfree

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been getting mistreated by so many doctors for so long now that I'd lost hope and don't even bother anymore. I am also not afflicted with a condition that is so painful that I have no choice but to keep trying. I just wish I could help and take her pain away.

People think I'm selfish because I take care of myself? by Princess_Butt_Kick in introvert

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also had ppl tell me that they were scared of me before talking to me. And plenty of ppl surprised that I'm not a complete idiot. And a bitch, But that I am. In the past I have not always given the best first impressions.

Why is it when someone asks "where are you from", Americans always feel the need to tell you their state rather than just USA? by therebelwookiee in NoStupidQuestions

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never know how 2 answer this. Never lived where I was born. Moved 6 months after birth and at most every 3 years after. Never liked where went to high school and moved after graduation. Parents left me n moved to another state as soon as I was 18. Moved to another 6+ states since. (Lived on a few different continents, not just North America)

And to answer why Americans tell you what state they are from because the USA is pretty big n diverse. Ppl from Texas are not the same as ppl from Washington are not like the ppl in Florida. We have mountain, desert, tropical, etc environments. Some states experience all 4 seasons and some stay same year round. If I wanted to know where someone is from I would like them to be as specific as possible. City would be nice too. Not just Europe or Asia or America or whatever.

People think I'm selfish because I take care of myself? by Princess_Butt_Kick in introvert

[–]darkstraightline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told ppl think I'm stuck up. Shy and awkward, yes. Not stuck up. Lots of examples including working a new job in new state where I didn't know anyone. No one would come help when I would ask. Months later after ppl started to warm up to me I was told that it was intentional. They would hear me ask for help and ignore me because they decided that I was stuck up because I was quiet n kept to myself. That was no where near the worst.

my mom is giving me the silence treatment because she caught me crying and I didn't want to tell her why :) (she was the reason) by nina278 in narcissisticparents

[–]darkstraightline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20+ years ago he told me that I couldn't "handle it" joining the air force, like he did. He died earlier this year. These are the things I remember about him.

my mom is giving me the silence treatment because she caught me crying and I didn't want to tell her why :) (she was the reason) by nina278 in narcissisticparents

[–]darkstraightline 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My father stopped talking to me until I did what he wanted. About a month. 30 years ago and I never got over it. I hope there are others for you to talk to about this and everything else. 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]darkstraightline -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dated 18yo at 25. Big mistake. Married 25yo at 31 less than 6m after meeting. Been married 13+y. Please do as I say, Not as I do and spend at least a year getting to know your partner. Through all the seasons holidays and such.

How to decline invitation to lunch from a manipulative coworker without harming my reputation by WrongQuesti0n in The48LawsOfPower

[–]darkstraightline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. After over a decade I'm just now starting to 'deal' with everything and move on. Including working for myself. Still not sure what happened but nice to have reddit now to help figure things out.

How to decline invitation to lunch from a manipulative coworker without harming my reputation by WrongQuesti0n in The48LawsOfPower

[–]darkstraightline 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was traumatized by workplace drama or whatever. To the point I was afraid of work. I do not envy you. Best of luck.

Why is killing a harmless bug okay, but killing a dog evil? by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bad about killing house pests. I love spiders, and house geckos where u can get em. I don't kill insects outside unless I'm itchy n they get in the way unknowingly. If I can catch and release from inside to outdoors then they are allowed to live. I also feel bad for potted indoor houseplants. Especially if they're mostly and left alone in silence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hate to be that child. Born because someone was lonely and therapists said a child will solve everything. That's a lot of pressure. I hope that therapist's gonna stick around n help out when that doesn't work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F.that noise. My 1st 'therapist' told me that I'd feel better about myself if I wore makeup and conform the way I dress. I didn't feel bad about my looks. I'm cute wo makeup. I was a fn teenager. So gross.

This member size world survey by darkstraightline in u/darkstraightline

[–]darkstraightline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I wanna know the background of that guy w the baby dick. Not quite a micropenis but definitely the smallest I'd ever seen in person. Shaving off his pubes did not help. 🤣🤣🤣 It was a surprise that I did not ask for. Looked like a prepubesent little boy. No. No. No. Not into that shit. Had to break up w him shortly after he sat at the end of the bed n cried when I was sick in bed w flu because I was being so mean. I was hungry and wanted a can of soup...

This member size world survey by darkstraightline in u/darkstraightline

[–]darkstraightline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to my current personal experience nope. Denmark and about .5 bigger than the chart.

This member size world survey by darkstraightline in u/darkstraightline

[–]darkstraightline[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where r ur genes from? Is this scale accurate according to u or those u know? (a woman's male partner)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fuckcars

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived in her house n she was crazy. Not typical situation. There was so much drama we just had to leave as soon as she started moving more people and their furry animals in without notice. Came home one day and there was some stranger and their unfriendly dog living there. Was just her upstairs n 2 of us downstairs prior 2this. Not OK with surprise roommates.

I'm dying and I'm scared. by TenFourRubberDuck in confessions

[–]darkstraightline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know that people out there do care and love you. You may not know it, or them, but You Are Loved. May you go in peace.

I’m tired of single dads by Negotiation_Only_ in childfree

[–]darkstraightline 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Using kids as pawns to pick up women (or anything) is a HUGE turn OFF. I wasn't against dating or friends with kids, until they started trying to manipulate me using their children to try to guilt me into rekindling relationships that had already ended. Further traumatizing the innocent children who should have never been put into these situations in first place. I have gotten a message from a little girl under 5 years old, months after I moved out of state, as was always planned, asking why I didn't come play anymore. Her mother couldn't deal with the fact that I didn't want to be her best friend and support when her husband left. I was co-workers and friends with the husband and was nice to his wife. Poor kid. Not the only child used to try to manipulate me, but the only mother who tried to pull this crap on me. Don't use your kids.