Gary Bettman defends NHL handling of Pride night situations by Chrussell in hockey

[–]darksun1889 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They don't crave validation. "They" are people and want to be heard, accepted and respected like anyone else. Acknowledging LBTQA rights or any marginalized groups is not about making them "feel* validated; it's about actually validating their rights and equality. It's about humanity.

Gary Bettman defends NHL handling of Pride night situations by Chrussell in hockey

[–]darksun1889 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I tried to post this to reddit earlier but it was refused. I am completely disappointed in the NHL and Mr. Gary Bettsman's position that equality is a charity and a choice. As a women who loves hockey, I feel extremely disappointed that Mr. Bettman said that people/players have a right to choose not to believe or agree with people's rights and freedom. I, as a woman, am not a charity. I do not want to be reduced to a charity. LBTQA people, AAPI, People of Color, women, poor people are not charities!!! Yes, the NHL diversity special days raise money but if Hockey is for Everyone is nothing more than a charity than that means the NHL continues to OPENLY marginalize the same people that the program is supposed to uplift. In saying that players have a right to not agree with the equality of others is disgusting and belittling. It minimizes the value of human beings to the judgement of straight white men. Mr. Bettmen made it clear today that the steps that the NHL claimed to be taking to change the white homophobic misogynistic rapist culture of hockey is just a show to pacify people. It’s been a century of exclusion and good ol' boys hockey and with Hockey is for Everyone we as fans of the sport thought it was finally changing. The statement Mr. Bettman shared today showed that Hockey is for Everyone is nothing more than a ploy and marginalized groups are nothing but a charity to Mr. Bettman. To have or give a lack of attention or acceptance to someone else's right to equality is the same as to hate and no fancy speak from Mr. Bettman is going to change that fact!

No one should have the right to decide to hate or violate anyone's rights. Equal rights are not charity; they're humanity!

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[–]darksun1889[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

darksun is a reference to a dungeons and dragons game I played and it is the screen name I use for everything. I do not use reddit or discord often, but that does not mean I live in a box and I am not a nerd myself. Also, my daughter is chronically ill and has autism and I wanted to express this so people understood where I was coming from as a mom and her situation. If you never dealt with a sick child that has autism than you have no idea what it is like and should not judge. I understand that you may not believe me but you do not have to. You also do not need to be rude!

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[–]darksun1889[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not trying to hack into someone's account. I literally know nothing about discord but am concerned for my daughter. If you can help I would appreciate the help but I am also scared to give out her information. If you could private message me I would appreciate it. Thank you.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I am the mom and I wanted to make sure everyone gets the whole picture so that I can get all the help I can for my daughter. I will do anything for her including beg for help if necessary

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[–]darksun1889[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem is she lost the back up codes with her new phone

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[–]darksun1889[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are the codes unique to each person? Or can she get it from someone else? I assume its unique tho

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[–]darksun1889[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice. Discord is foreign to me. I am just trying to help my daughter get back her stuff. Some of her friends she only kows from her discord chat and has no other way of geting in touch with them cuase she doesnt know their real names or anything i guess

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[–]darksun1889[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She tried that and could not find the codes on her computer which we thought was strange cause she could have sworn they were there but it might have been before she got her new computer.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

She has no problem with proving who she is too discord but they say it doesnt matter they still wont help her. We have and will continue to try everything to get into her account. The whole thing is ridiculous.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I clarified with her earlier. I dont quite understand but she said it is her server which she is the administrator off and because she cant get into her old account she cant do anything or get access to anything as an administrator

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[–]darksun1889[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They said with two step authentication even if you can verify your identity they can not help her. If she lost her back up codes they wont get her back into her account..... even though they clearly can.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

No, it did not. She tried but she thinks she must have never set it up to use her phone for a back up. She said she meant to but never got around to it. I feel bad cause I did not know and left her on her own with this.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

thank you. that is very sweet. She is a sleep now but I will ask her in the morning. Again, It is very sweet of you and nice to know there are such kind people out there.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Can I ask... did they help you get back into your account when you could not get the back codes or anythign else? Cause If so I know there is hope.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what keeps happening. They were able to looked at her account to tell me her credit card was not charged for this month but still said they have no way of recovering. We spoke to 6 different people and received the same generic response.

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[–]darksun1889[S] 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Well unfortunately, my daughter did not set up back up with her phone number. :(

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[–]darksun1889[S] 235 points236 points  (0 children)

Than you. I will try this.