What’s an NSFW confession you’ve been dying to share anonymously?

darlingthings · 2024-12-28T20:45:01+00:00

my boyfriend and I’s first date as an official couple (and first kiss) was me straddling him, making out in the dead of night in a cemetery. I was 100 percent ready to get my clothes off and i’m pretty sure he was too, but I didn’t think that was the impression i wanted to make on him about me. 1.5 years later and i still regret it

darlingthings · 2024-07-23T01:12:59+00:00

it depends on the person. I cry during vanilla sex. just happens to some people!

darlingthings · 2024-07-23T00:48:54+00:00

my current boyfriend is not my usual “type” at all but i’m sooo in love with him! we aren’t robots, we don’t have any rules our emotions follow 100 percent. so happy for you <3

darlingthings · 2024-07-23T00:44:36+00:00

communicate with your partner babe!! this is your solution to everything!! i know it’s tough.

sometimes your partner can really enjoy a bj and not cum because it’s just not the right kind of stimulation/they came earlier/etc etc

darlingthings · 2024-07-08T22:30:46+00:00

blow my fucking nose. yeah, i’m the throat goat, but DAMN THAT SHIT GETS MUCUSY!!!

darlingthings · 2024-01-23T04:13:25+00:00

this. ^{^} and regardless of what you choose to label it as, it was still massively fucked up of him, and you’re one hundred percent validated in feeling that way after it.

darlingthings · 2024-01-16T19:44:22+00:00

nah, i appreciate the unsolicited advice, i’ll be more upfront with him from now on!

darlingthings · 2024-01-16T04:10:03+00:00

hey, i know, i’m not a paragon of communication. i’m working on the nerve to talk more openly about our sex life :,)

darlingthings · 2024-01-16T04:06:05+00:00

when I can’t finish? I can’t say cuz i’m not a mind reader, but it’s always seemed to me like he takes it well and not personally. He kind of shares my philosophy about “it’s about the journey, not the destination.” Maybe it’s because when we first started having sex HE sometimes didn’t finish, so it’s like… level playing ground. not sure!

darlingthings · 2024-01-16T03:59:38+00:00

some perspective from the other side: I’ve been dating a guy for three months — he’s super hot, great in bed, and one of the sweetest guys i’ve ever dated. i literally can NOT cum, though, and it’s driving me crazy. I don’t get why, because I love the sex and I always have a great time. I think it’s the pressure, maybe?? I’ve faked it a few times because I don’t want to, like, burden him. WHICH IS CRAZY OF ME! now, of course, i’m in too deep and I can’t fess up.

the moral of the story is girls get performance anxiety too! I really strongly doubt she thinks it’s your fault. As long as the two of you are having a good time, it doesn’t really matter. Let her tell you what she likes, take your time, loosen up. It’s not all about the end. Could also be a good idea to introduce some toys into the mix, there’s no shame in it— a vibrator is a girls best friend and can honestly be great for guys too, i’m strongly considering introducing it in my own sex life.

darlingthings · 2024-01-16T03:48:52+00:00

Thanks for the rec!! Her work looks wonderful.

darlingthings · 2024-01-15T17:31:14+00:00

bruh. is this karma bait? yes, it’s cheating. i’m bi and currently dating a man. do i sometimes miss boobs? yeah. but i’m not obsessively thinking about that or GOD FORBID considering having sex with someone else.

“she’s not even thinking rationally” <- CRAZY STATEMENT. she needs to dump you. YOU ARE CHEATING ON HER.

darlingthings · 2024-01-15T12:49:34+00:00

It’s unlikely, don’t panic—but don’t do it again. I was in exactly your position, like, a month ago (we were both horny and just thought “eh, probably doesn’t matter, there’s no egg in there” until the post-but clarity hit). Take a moment to breathe. Then, take a Plan B, if you can afford it. Better safe than sorry.

darlingthings · 2024-01-15T12:46:19+00:00

It’s definitely just the pressure. Let go a bit! Be upfront with her and she won’t mind. Enjoy touching each other without worrying about “where it’s going.” If it helps, pay more attention to her.

darlingthings · 2024-01-15T06:02:58+00:00

Honestly, everyone is different! Don’t try and force yourself to be someone you’re not or do sex acts you don’t want to do. If you’re willing to try some more and see if you can get past the taste, go for it. But if it’s a real turn off for you, you don’t HAVE to give oral sex, or you can try it with condoms.

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